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%THINK FEEL INTUIT WORK TERMS PERCEIVE PARADIGM GOD 070124
 %DOMINEERING PEOPLE TRUE LOVERS ABSOLUTE TRUTH SEX 070124
%SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS INTIMACIES VULNERABILITY GOOD 070124
%GOODS POSESSIONS COVET GREED MORE THAN ENOUGH EVIL 070124
 %RELATIONS RELATIONSHIPS MUTUAL BALANCED AGREEABLE 070124
%EXTERNAL CONTROLS ORIENTATION AGENTS PRIVATE FORCE 070124

     Domineering-People often think,  feel,  intuit,   and
work ---  in terms of what they perceive to be THEIR GOD'S
ABSOLUTE: TRUTH, COMMANDS, DEMANDS, CONTROLS, ETC. ---  as
interpreted  within  the  framework  of their  DOMINATION-
SYSTEM.

     True-Lovers  are Graciously-Together in  Shalom's-Way
seeking  to  Truly-Know  and  Graciously-Respond-To  Each-
Other's: Basic-Needs,  Hopes, Aspirations, Desires, Fears,
Anxieties, and Points-of-Vulnerability.

     Domineering-People  would "love"  to have some of the
above  useful-information  for  utilitarian  use-and-abuse
within their  programs of concentrating:  powers,  wealth,
forces, influence, coalitions, etc.

     True-Lovers   are  Graciously-Together  with   joint-
concerns that no  imbalance in power,  wealth,  influence,
etc.  undermine their ability to be safely-vulnerable with
each other --- free of both intentional and unintentional:
force, coercion, domination, etc.

     Domineering-People  are constantly looking for  signs
of imbalance-and-vulnerability which they can make use  of
to:  "get-ahead",  concentrate-wealth,  concentrate-power,
gain-additional-influence, live-more-luxuriously, etc.

     True-Lovers  are  often looking for opportunities  to
mitigate: Distributive-Injustice, concentrations-of-power,
concentrations-of-wealth, and other demonstrations of The-
Domination-System.

     Domineering-People  are constantly looking for  means
to assure themself of Invulnerability --- and are likewise
constantly  anxious about how each other of them may  take
advantage of the weaker and less secure ---  whom they may
themself be.

     Which paradigm is  more  likely to demonstrate Truly-
Communal-and-Personal Coherence, Integrations and Diverse-
Integrities?

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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