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 %DIAGNOSTIC SIGNS INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS TRUE LOVE 070119
   %COMPATIBLE IDENTICAL COMPLEMENTARY DEMANDS SAME 070119
 %SYMPATHETIC EMPATHETIC BEFITTING BELITTLE DIFFERS 070119
%COOPERATE COPY CONTEMPLATE CONTEMPTUOUS DENIGRATES 070119
%CREATIVE CONTENTIOUS INTEGRATIVE DESTRUCTIVE BOMBS 070119
%SEXUAL BONDS INTIMACY FRIENDSHIPS RECONCILED ENEMY 070119

In their Intimate-Relationships True-Lovers are Mutually:

Compatible-With            rather than Identical-to.
Complementary-To           rather than Identical-to.
Sympathetic-&-Empathetic   rather than Demanding-of.
Befitting-Each-Other       rather than Belittling-each.
Cooperative-With-Each      rather than Copying-each-Other.
Contemplative-With-Each    rather than Contemptuous-about.
Collaborative-With-Each    rather than Manipulating-each.
Creative-Being-Together    rather than Contentious-with.
Integrative-Being-With     rather than Destructive-with.
Synchronized-With-Other    rather than Conformed-to-other.
Accepting-Differences      rather than Condemning-others.
Accepting-Tolerance        rather than Being-Intolerant.
Demonstrating-Integrities  rather than Purifications.
Demonstrating-Growth       rather than Final-Perfection.
Demonstrating-Repentance   rather than Domination.
Demonstrating-Humility     rather than Hubris.
Demonstrating-Grace        rather than Arrogance.
Demonstrating-Acceptance   rather than Rejections.
Demonstrating-Shalom       rather than Excommunications.
Demonstrating-Coherence    rather than Polarizations.
Demonstrating-Unity        rather than Dichotomies.
Demonstrating-Cooperation  rather than Superiority.
Demonstrating-Colaboration rather than Defeating-others.
Demonstrating-Reflexivity  rather than Objections-To-Other
Demonstrating-Intimacies   rather than Subsections-To-Any.

     Domineering-People Go-To-Extremes and They-Cannot Let
                    True-Lovers or Any-Others:

1.  Encourage Any-Step In-Transition to Being-True-Lovers.
2.  Enjoy True-Security in the Absence-of-Domination.
3.  Yearn-for-True-Security Without-any-Domination.
4.  Envision-True-Security  Without-any-Domination.
5.  Conceive-True-Security  Without-any-Domination.
6.  Engender-True-Security  Without-any-Domination.
7.  Become-Willing-To-Let-Go-Of     any-Domination.
8.  Tolerate-the-Presence of True-Lovers In-Community.
9.  Tolerate-the-Presence of True-Lovers In-Colaboration.
10. Tolerate-the-Presence-of True-Lovers in-Cooperation.

    In contrast to the above extremes; True-Lovers:

1.  Non-Violently-Resist-Domination.
2.  Truly-Maintain Their-Integrities.
3.  Help-Others in Their-Integrations.
4.  Speak-Truth-to-Concentrated-Powers.
5.  Speak-Truth-to-Concentrated-Wealth.
6.  Mitigate Concentrations of Powers-and-Wealth.
7.  Mitigate Alienations and Excommunications.
8.  Mitigate Domineering-Peoples' Systems of Controls.
9.  Mitigate Domineering-Peoples' Systems of Alienation.
10. Mitigate Domineering-People's Systems of Conformity.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                   (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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