This is http://www.essayz.com/b0608181.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PATHS WAYS PROGRESS TRUE LOVER EFFECTIVE INTEGRATE 060818 %FOCUS ATTENTION PRIORITY SETTING COMMUNAL COHERENT 060818 %COHERENCE INTEGRATIONS INTEGRITIES HOSPITALITY GOD 060818 %LOVE ACCEPT ACCEPTANCE HEALING MINISTRIES SISTERS 060818 %MERCY CONFESSIONS REPENTANCE TURNING AROUND REBELS 060818 %SLAVISH CONFORMIST TRADITIONALIST CONSERVATIVE SEX 060818 True-Lovers Are-Effective-Integrators by Focusing- Attention-Upon Other-than-what-Domineering-People-Do: True-Lovers-Focus-Upon: Dominators-Focus-Upon: Hospitality Exclusivity Welcomes Rejections Generosity Greed and Creeds Distributive-Justice Concentrating Power/Wealth Integrations Disintegrations Creative-Tolerance Destructive-Intolerance Communal-Integrations Personal-Disintegrations Friendships-and-Intimacies Contentiousness-and-Evil Affirmations-and-Integrations Negations-and-Destruction Acceptance-and-Inclusivity Rejections-&-Purification Authenticity-and-Coherence Conformity-and-Loyalty Creativity-and-Cohesion Commandments-and-Obedience Visions-and-Meditation Authorities-and-Orthodoxy Desires-and-Dreams Laws-and-Orders Experiences-and-Descriptions Prescrips-and-Proscripts Listening-and-Writing Scripts-and-Role-Playing Sharing-in-Open/Honest-Dialogue Accepting-Scripts-&-Roles Reconciliation-in-Cooperation Alienation-in-Contentions Healing-within-Shalom Isolated-Dis-Eased-Others Reconciling-Isolated-Enemies Eliminating-Evil-Enemies Healing-Dysfunctional-Relations Eliminating-Evil-Relations Integrating-Incoherent-Elements Eliminating-Incoherent-1s Loving-Enemies-into-Friendships Eliminating-Enemies-Surely Counting-their-Blessings Counting-ALL-Evil-Enemies Clarifying-Whole-Paradoxes Denigrating-ALL-Paradoxes Reverencing-Integrations Denigrating-Integrations Accepting-Integrities-as-Such Rejecting-Imperfections Integrating-Raw-Relationships Rejecting-Different-Ones Building-Trust-with-others Distrusting-Different-Ones Emphasizing-Common-Grounds Emphasizing-Dichotomies Emphasizing-Cooperation Emphasizing-Competition Sharing-Goods Accumulating-Goods Transcending-Evil-Relations Eliminating-Evil-Relations Integrating-Evil-Relationships Destroying-Evil-Relatives Being-Together-in-Shalom Being-Together-in-Wars Mutually-Assured-Love Mutually-Assured-Chaos Mutually-Assured-Inclusions Mutually-Assured-Hate Mutually-Assured-Goods Mutually-Assured-Evil Mutually-Assured-Empathy Mutually-Assured-Ignorance Mutually-Assured-Sympathy Mutually-Assured-Pains Mutually-Assured-Civility Mutually-Assured-Sickness Mutually-Assured-Shalom Mutually-Assured-Terrors Any useful Cost-Benefit-Analysis of the ways in which True-Lovers and Domineering-People Focus-Attention will take into account all of the: 1. Benefits-and-Costs of True-Lovers'-Foci. 2. Benefits-and-Costs of Not-Focusing-as-Dominators 3. Benefits-and-Costs of Dominators' Foci. 4. Benefits-and-Costs of Not-Focusing-as-True-Lovers. 5. Benefits-and-Costs of Short/Long-Term-Integrations. 6. Benefits-and-Costs of Short/Long-Term-Disintegrations 7. Benefits-and-Costs of Short/Long-Term-Reconciliations 8. Benefits-and-Costs of Short/Long-Term-Alienations. 9. Benefits-and-Costs of Short/Long-Term-Generosity. 10. Benefits-and-Costs of Short/Long-Term-Greed. What IS-NOT-DONE Counts-Just-as-Much as What-IS-DONE. Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================