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     When circumstances are grim and/or chaotic we need to
take care that we do not rush in uninvited, to try  to  do
Great-Deeds  which we are Not-Qualified and  not   Called-
Upon to do; e.g. rushing in and and taking over:

 1.  In an open heart surgery.

 2.  The controls of the nuclear reactor.

 3.  The delivery of a lecture on quantum mechanics.

 4.  The chairing of a meeting of a labor union.

 5.  The chairing of a meeting of a State Legislature.

 6.  The negotiation between opposing sides in a civil war

 7.  The delivery of a talk  to a religious assembly.

 8.  The negotiations between husband and wife in conflict

 9.  Planning for actions by one side in a new civil war.

10.  A meeting of the Board of Directors of a Bank.

     For us some "Great-Deeds" are utterly impossible.

     Only   when  qualified  others  have  judged  us   as
qualified  to do a task that they want us to do for  them,
and have agreed to call upon us to serve them ---   should
we dare to attempt to do what we are called upon to try to
do.   Then it may be our duty to try to do what we may not
think  we are qualified to do;  and maybe try to  convince
them that we are not qualified to do as they ask.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom!

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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