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%DOMINTE TRADITION PROTECT PRIVACY MUTUALLY EXCLUDE 060606 
%OVERLAPPING INTIMACY FRIENDSHIP DIALOGUE EXCLUSIVE 060606
%GET HAVE BUY PAY OWN CONTROL EVIL RELATION ENEMIES 060606

     Dominant    Traditions   about    Protective-Privacy,
Mutually-Exclusive-Intimacy  and  Inter-Personal-Ownership
stand   in   the  way  of  any   Extensive-Sharing   among
participants  within  Over-Lapping-Intimate-Relationships.
The traditions say that  there  should never  be any Over-
Lapping-Intimate-Relationships.    Intimacy  "should"   be
Utterly-Exclusive!   There "should"  be  no  occasions for
inclusive "Intimate-Sharing".

     Domineering-People   want  to  be  Dominant  in   any
personal-relationships which they "have" = "own".

     Truly-Intimate-Personal-Relationships    cannot    be
"had"; i.e., "owned" in any meaningful way.

     It is impossible to be involved in a  Given-Intimate-
Personal-Relationship  ---  without to  some  extent being
also involved with others who are Intimately-Involved with
the participants   in   the   Given-Intimate-Relationship.
Truly-Intimately-Involved-Participants    are  Intimately-
Inter-Dependent.   This Independence-Complication is taboo
to   Domineering-People;    because  it  complicates   the
possibility   of   being   successful   as   The-Dominant-
Participant in  a "Relationship"   which  the Domineering-
Person "has"  = "owns".   The "Integrity" of domination is
compromised and its success is not likely to be possible.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in 
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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