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%CONTROL PEOPLE BELIEFS ATTITUDES HOPES ASPIRATIONS 060602
  %DESIRES INTENTIONS EXPECTATIONS PLANS ALIENATION 060602
%DOMINATION EVIL RELATIONSHIPS CHOSEN CHOOSE EFFORT 060602
%DISHONEST PRETENSE COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF GOD 060602

     Domineering people  often  attempt  to  control other
people's: Beliefs, Attitudes, Hopes, Aspirations, Desires,
Expectations, Intentions, etc.   Such efforts are bound to
generate alienation --- because:

     1.  Domineering people tend to be alienative in their
relationships  with each other,  and with  non-domineering
people.

     2.  Healthy  people  cannot  with  integrity  control
their own Beliefs, Attitudes, Hopes, Aspirations, Desires,
Expectations,   Intentions,  etc.  ---  to  conform to any
chosen standard   ---  not even to a chosen standard which
they have themselves freely-chosen.

     Efforts to control what humans cannot control --- are
dishonest efforts ---  and so are alienative.   Dishonesty
is alienative.  Dishonestly presuming to do what cannot be
done --- is alienative.    Dishonestly presuming  to  make
people control what they cannot control --- is alienative;
even if the people who are  the  focus of such efforts are
ostensibly  "agreeable".    Addicts and their  codependent
supporters  often  illustrate the above  observations  ---
while they are denying the accuracy of the observations.

     Cooperation is far more helpful than controls are.

     Be Graciously-Cooperative in the Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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