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 %AUTHENTIC BONDING TRUE LOVERS DISCOVER EACH OTHER 060521
%COURT COMMON DESIRES HOPES BEING TOGETHER WAYS OUR 060521
  %SHALOM WANT INTERNALIZE TRAGIC FUTILE DOMINATION 060521
%LETTING GO HOPES COVET DOMINANT CONTROL PRUDENT ID 060521
  %INVULNERABLE VULNERABLE SEXUAL CONCEPTION FAMILY 060521
 %RESPOND GRACIOUSLY DOMINATOR NONVIOLENCE RESISTOR 060521

     Authentic-Bonding occurs when:

     1.  True-Lovers discover and know each other.
     2.  Court-each-other.
     3.  Discover Being-Together in the Ways-of-Shalom.
     4.  Want more of what they have Discovered-Together.
     5.  Internalize how Tragically-Futile-Domination is.
     6.  Let-Go all Hopes-of-Being-Dominant In-Control.
     7.  Accept the Prudent-Risks of True-Vulnerability.
     8.  Let-Go of all Hopes-of-Being-Invulnerable.
     9.  Learn to share with others what they discovered.
    10.  Learn How-to-Respond-Graciously to Dominators.

     Authentic-Bonding is NOT a form of manipulative magic
which can be used by Dominators to be in control.

     Authentic-Bonding  is NOT a purely-spiritual  reality
that  is  beyond  any human understanding  in  existential
terms.

     Authentic-Bonding can-NOT be controlled,  proscripted
or prescribed in any technocratic way by Loyal-Supporters-
of Any-Domination-System.

     Authentic-Bonding  does  not enslave anybody to  Any-
Domination-System  or  to  any  loyal  supporter  of  Any-
Domination-System.

     Authentic-Bonding  Liberates-Victims who are enslaved
as Loyal-Servants  of a Domination-System in some form  of
Profitable-Service to The Domination-Systems.

     Authentic-Bonding    is   neither    thinkable    nor
discussable within the Courts-of-Domination-Systems --- so
Authentic-Bonding cannot be anticipated within the Courts-
of-Domination-Systems --- and cannot be planned for in any
Coherent-Authentic Systems-Analysis-Way.

     Honesty  about Authentic-Bonding is taboo within  the
Courts-of-Domination-Systems,  because by laws which it is
taboo  to describe, it is taboo to be aware of any form of
Authentic-Bonding which  entails no: controls,   violence,
coercion,  or domination --- of anybody by anybody or  any
human creation.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in 
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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