This is http://www.essayz.com/b0604261.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TRUE LOVERS GRACIOUS WAYS OF SHALOM PEACEMAKERS 060426 %CLEAR NEED DUTY RESPONSIBILITY OPPORTUNITY MAKERS 060426 %CREATIVE CONFLICT RESOLUTION NONVIOLENT RESISTANCE 060426 %DEFEAT LOSER DOMINATION SYSTEM COLLUSIVE GAMES SIN 060426 %MUTUAL ALIENATE MUTUAL PRETENTIOUS SELF DECEPTION 060426 %EVIL RELATIONSHIPS EXCOMMUNICATIONS REJECTIONS SEX 060426 True-Lovers have no Need-nor-Duty to Make-Clear to Fearful-Domineering-People Just-How True-Lovers can: 1. Mitigate Domination or Evil. 2. Transcend Domination & Evil. 3. Resist Domination & Evil. 4. Win contests between themselves and others. 5. Ignore Who-Wins and Who-Loses Particular-Contests 6. Obscure Who-Wins and Who-Loses Contests. 7. Create Win-Win Resolutions of Conflicts/Contests. 8. Mitigate Polarizations-and-Dichotomies. 9. Mitigate Conflicts between Complementary-Ideals. 10. Mitigate Conflicts between Complementary-Values. There is no Need-nor-Duty for True-Lovers to do any of the above within the indicated circumstances --- because ˙˙doing ˙˙so ˙will ˙most ˙likely ˙˙Heighten Fearful-Domination and its Confused-Systems-of-Analysis. True-Lovers Need-No-Losers and Have-No-Duty To- Create-Losers --- in order to be helpful in any of the above ten gracious ways in the Way-of-Shalom. Be True-Lovers Graciously in Shalom's Ways. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================