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   %ACTUAL OSTENSIBLE REASONS HONOR DISHONOR HUMANE 060413
%PROTECT DOMINATION SYSTEM TRADITION EXCLUSIVE GOOD 060413
%GREED COVET ANXIETY FEAR INVULNERABLE SECURITY GOD 060413
  %TIME ENERGY LIMITATIONS ETERNAL LIVES OMNISCIENT 060413
%TRAGIC MISGUIDED IDEALS VALUES PRINCIPLES DOMINANT 060413
 %ABSENT ESSENTIAL VIRTUES FOUNDATIONS INTEGRATIONS 060413

       The Actual-and-Ostensible reasons for

       Honoring-and/or-Dishonoring Human-Relationships

       Are many, confusing, confused, hidden, etc.

       1.  Protecting Domination-Systems.
       2.  Protecting Traditions-of-Exclusivity.
       3.  Greed, Covetousness, Anxiety, and/or Fear.
       4.  Insecurity and/or Wanting-Invulnerability.
       5.  Being-Realistic about Time-Limitations.
       6.  Being-Realistic about Attention-Limitations.
       7.  Misguided-Resistance-to-Domination.
       8.  Misguided-Resistance-to-Dishonest-Techniques.
       9.  Seeking-Persona-and-Communal-Integrities.
      10.  Anger-and-Resentment over past-violence.
      11.  Seeking Just-Revenge, Just-Punishment, etc.
      12.  Evening-Up the Current-Score in Competition.
      13.  Inhibiting future Improper-Relationships.
      14.  Affirming the nature of Proper-Relationships.
      16.  Protecting-Standards-of-Propriety.
      17.  Responding-to-LOVE-Calls to Integrations.
      18.  Loving-the-Enemy-Neighbor.
      19.  Letting-Go-of-Collusive-Games-of-Self-Negation.
      20.  Letting-Go-of-Greed, Covetousness, Anxiety,

     It is difficult  to sort out which of the above merit
respect, honor and reverence;  and which do not.

     It is difficult to affirm, facilitate and promote any
forms   of  Personal-and-Communal Integrities/Integrations
--- in the absence of a consensus about which of the above
merit respect, honor and reverence, and which do not.

     So  long  as  we are unsure in these  matters  it  is
difficult to lay the foundations for confidence on how  to
AUGMENT True-and-Healthy-Forms of:

     1.  Friendships,
     2.  Neighborliness,
     3.  Intimacies,
     4.  Courtships,
     5.  Reconciliations,
     6.  Conflict-Resolutions,
     7.  Peace-Making,
     8.  Sexual-Expressions,
     9.  Sexual-Pleasures, or
    10.  Transcendence of Alienative-Taboos.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in 
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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