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   %DOMINEERING COMMUNITY LEADERS NOT SAFE SECURITY 060403
 %OPEN HONEST REAL ACTUAL AUTHENTIC DESIRES CONFORM 060403
%PRESCRIPTION PROSCRIPTION RELIGIOUS SPIRITUAL GOOD 060403
 %EVIL ALIENATION EXCOMMUNICATION TELL SAY DESCRIBE 060403
 %PROPHET SPEAK TRUTH FALLEN POWERS AUTHENTIC IDEAL 060403
 %FORMS FORMULAS FORMALITIES PROPRIETIES PRETENSION 060403

     In  a  Domineering-Community  which  is  Dominated-By
Domineering-Leaders, we are likely to feel that it is  Not
Safe to be Open-and-Honest about our Real/Actual/Authentic
Own-Desires.   We are likely to feel that we must Conform-
Our-Own-Desires      to     Domineering-Religious-Leaders'
Prescriptions and Proscriptions.    If we Conform-Our-Own-
Desires to Domineering-Religious-Leaders'     Desires-For-
Us, we  will then at least be able to be Honest-About-our-
Own-Desires.  Really?

     After  we have Conformed-Our-Own-Desires,  how are we
to  tell  if we are being  honest  about  Our-Own-Desires?
After  we  have  joined  Domineering-Leaders's  Collusive-
Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception  ---  how can we tell if we
are   being:    Authentic,    Open,   Honest,    Coherent,
Integrators,   Uniters,  Cooperative,  Intimate,  or True-
Lovers?

     What do we Authentically-Desire?

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     1.  Intimacy and Integrations?
                   or
     2.  Dominance and Conformity?

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     1.  Unity and Cooperation?
                   or
     2.  Polarizations and Dichotomies?

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     How can we know our Own-Desires?

     Be-Authentically-Together in Shalom!

     Let-Go of what keeps Shalom At-Bay!

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in 
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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