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%FRIENDSHIP NEIGHBORS OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE INTIMATE 060303
%INTIMATIONS MORTALITY PERFECTION RIGHTEOUS RELATED 060303
%EVIL RELATIONSHIPS IMPERFECT SEXUALITY INTEGRATION 060303
%RISK DANGER COURAGE DISCOURAGE INTEGRITIES ATTEMPT 060303
%BEGIN START INITIATE CREATE NEW GROWTH VISION GOOD 060303
  %MOVE LETTING GO CONTINUE SHALOM HEALTH COMMUNITY 060303

     It is:
      1.  Difficult,
       2.  A Challenge,
        3.  Risky/Dangerous and
         4.  Discouraging ---

     To --- With-Integrity attempt to:
      1.  Desire/Want/Hope-for/Move-Toward ---
       2.  Begin, Move-Into, and Continue-Within ---

     A Open-and-Honest Courtship with One-or-More others;
     seeking to facilitate and promote True-Integrities
     through True-Integrations.

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     The Levels-of-Difficulty, Challenge, Risk, and Danger
     depend upon the Presence and/or Absence of:

     1.  Alienative-Domineering-People Being-Arrogant,
     2.  Supportive-True-Lovers in The-Ways-of-Shalom,
     3.  Protect ions-of-Many Foundational-Human-Rights,
     4.  Commitments-to-Support Integrations/Integrities,
     5.  Wise-and-Prudent Tolerance-and-Understandings,
     6.  Forgiveness and Hopeful-Reconciliations.

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     Integrative-and-Coherent Progress is made through and
     In-the-Presence of MUTUALLY Becoming-Aware-of-And:

     1.  Acknowledging Each-Other's Needs-and-Desires.
     2.  Wisely-and-Prudently Evaluating All-that-is-New.
     3.  Wisely-and-Prudently Evaluating Next-Steps.
     4.  Justly/Fairly sharing Risks, Costs, and Benefits.
     5.  Gracious-and-Prudent Openness-and-Honesty in LOVE
     6.  Gracious-and-Prudent Responses to Dominant-Others
     7.  Sharing-Benefits with Others who are Vulnerable.
     8.  Finding Security only within True-Sanctuaries.
     9.  Letting-go-of-desires for "invulnerability".
    10.  Finding True-Security in Letting-Go of defenses.

                      See the previous essay.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in 
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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