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  %IRRESPONSIBLE UNREALISTIC PROMISE PRESUME EXCEED 060223
%EXCESSIVE EXTREMIST TRANSCEND MORTALS LIMITS LOVER 060223
 %TRUE ABSOLUTE ARROGANT TRUTH UNILATERAL CERTAINTY 060223
   %INTEGRATIVE ALIENATION EXCOMMUNICATE ENEMY EVIL 060223
%CONTROL THOUGHTS FEELINGS ASSUMPTIONS ATTITUDES ID 060223
 %DESIRE HOPE ASPIRE WANT APPEAR PROPER CONFORM SEX 060223

     It is irresponsible,  NOT responsible,  to promise to
fulfill  more duties that one has the time and  energy  to
fulfill with personal-integrity.

     It    is   irresponsible,    NOT   responsible,    to
ASSUME/PRESUME to fulfill duties which one cannot possible
fulfill;    e.g.,    to    control     other     people's:
thoughts,    feelings, assumptions, attitudes,    desires,
hopes,    aspirations,  wants, appearances,  etc.;   quite
apart from how many such Impossible-Duties one PRESUMES to
try to fulfill.

     Is is not helpful to behave in any of the above ways;
even  when  overtly  or  tacitly  compelled/coerced   into
feeling that it is our duty to do so.

     All  of the above lead to responding to other  people
in: alienative, disintegrative,  coercive and violent ways
--- which can not be Graciously-Justified  With-Integrity;
for they are not within The Ways-of-Shalom.

     Be Graciously-Together in The Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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