This is http://www.essayz.com/b0602151.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %HUMANS ABLE DESCRIBE DISTINGUISH BETWEEN BEING GOD 060215 %REFLEXIVE PARTICIPANTS TRUE LOVERS HEALTHY HUMANE 060215 %INTIMATE RISKY VULNERABLE RELATIONSHIPS SEXUAL SIN 060215 %ACCURATE PERSPECTIVE FRAME ASK QUESTION DISEASE ID 060215 %OBJECTIVE REALITY PROBABILITY POSSIBILITY CAUSES 060215 %BIASED PARADIGM BOXED THINKING DOUBLE BINDS ALIENS 060215 How well can humans describe and distinguish between what it is like to be involved as True-Lovers within a Healthy-Humane-Relationship --- as Contrasted-With being involved in a Unhealthy-Inhumane-Relationships? We need to recognize that not all Healthy-Humane- Relationships are alike; and that not all Unhealthy- Inhumane-Relationships are alike. We need to also recognize that not all people who are involved in Healthy-Humane-Relationships will be able to offer clear and accurate descriptions of the most important differences between Healthy-and-Unhealthy Human- Relations. It is much less likely that people who are involved in Unhealthy-Human-Relationships will be able to offer clear and accurate descriptions of the most important differences between Healthy-and-Unhealthy Human-Relations. The differences in abilities to describe clearly and accurately the CONTRASTS between Healthy-and- Unhealthy RELATIONSHIPS --- are no doubt related to Why- it-Is that some some RELATIONSHIPS-are-Humane and other RELATIONSHIPS-are-Inhumane. ===================================== It is Far-More-Difficult to describe: Reflexive-Differences between Reflexive-Relationships than it is to describe Objective-Differences-between-Objective-Relationships Especially when one is a Participant within The kind of Reflexive-Relationships being described and The kind of Reflexive-Relationships being described are Unhealthy-Inhumane-Relationships which not even Healthy-Humans can describe well. ===================================================== In addition to the above considerations, the ability to describe/articulate aspects of any complex relationships will depend upon the following additional considerations: 1. Familiarity with a language which is rich in the vocabulary and grammar which is needed for the task at hand. 2. Being free of the handicaps of: war, terrorism, poverty, diseases, hunger, domination, segregation, bias, prejudices, addictions, codependencies, provincialisms, arrogance, self-righteousness, fundamentalism, narrow- specialization, prescriptions, proscriptions, collusions and related impediments. 3. The freedoms offered by adequate leisure, relaxation, communal support and sanctuaries for all to enjoy. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================