This is http://www.essayz.com/b0601251.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CONTRASTED CONFLICTING MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE PARADIGM 060125 %CONTENTIOUS CONTESTS BATTLES CONFLICTS VIOLENCE 060125 %TRUE LOVERS SECURE SAFE VULNERABILITY RISKS MANAGE 060125 %CONTROL SEDUCE HONEST AUTHENTIC NEIGHBORS INTIMATE 060125 %UNDERMINE SUBVERT ALIEN TRAITOR WEAK SECRECY OWNER 060125 %CONCENTRATED COALITION POWER PREVAIL OVER EVIL SIN 060125 %DESTROY IMPERFECT INFERIOR CRIMINALS PRISONS GODS 060125 True-Lovers and Domineering-People function within Contrasting-and-Conflicting paradigms. True-Lovers need to understand the Attitudes-and- Assumptions that prevail within the Domineering-Paradigm --- so as to be able to recognize each effort to seduce them into the Domineering-Paradigm. Domineering-People seeks to undermine and subvert their True-Lovers Authentic-Powers that are rooted in the Way-of-Shalom. Shalom is not: magic, mysterious, or from any "parallel" universe. The Power-of-Shalom is rooted in understanding the power of True-Reconciling-Virtues to heal the Echoes-of- Wounds-of-Alienative-Vices that Pervade-Evil-Relationships which are Augmented by Our-Trusting Myths-of-Redemptive: 1. Coercion, Violence, Rejections and Alienations. 2. Concentrations of Wealth, Power and Possessions. 3. Unilateral Rescues, Conversions and Salvations. 4. Achievements and Consumptions-of-Goods. 5. Contests, Competitions, and Superiorities. 6. Beliefs, Doctrines, Institutions and Rituals. 7. Angels whom we never truly-directly experience. 8. Sacrifices of Personal-and-Communal Integrities. 9. Sacrifices of Personal-and-Communal-Integrations. 10. Sacrifices of Truly-Gracious-Virtues Now-Present. Shalom is Now-Present in True-Lovers' Ways. True-Lovers live in the Way of Shalom. The Way of Shalom Includes True-Lovers. Domineering-People Blind-Each-Other. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================