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     Human   meanings   and  significances   depend   upon
contexts; whether the focus be: words, pointings, phrases,
statements, personal-relationships, achievements, actions,
presences, angels, devils, etc.

     Human  meanings  and  significances depend  upon  who
acknowledges,       describes,     clarifies,      affirms
particular  realities:   things,   persons,   possessions,
achievements, relationships,  friendships,  intimacies ---
and  upon the manner/context within which any of the above
are done.

     Contexts   are  defined   by  environments:   cosmic,
galactic, stellar, planetary, cometary, asteroidal, plate-
tectonic,  volcanic,  earthquake, global-warming, tsunami,
hurricane,      rising-oceans,      population-explosions,
guaranteed-total-mutual-nuclear-destruction,    terrorism,
reconciliations,  hospitality, civility, grace, generosity
and myths regards unilateral redemptions and salvations by
superior-powers-that-be. 

    Different-Contexts  often  engender different meanings
and significances.  Jack and Jill do NOT  live in the same
context;  because they each have a different lover.   When
those around  them change,  both of their contexts change.
They cannot control their  contexts;  so they cannot be in
control  of how their meanings and  significances  change.
Playing  collusive  games of mutual self  deception  about
their evolving contexts does not improve their chances  of
being  in control of their contexts.   Addicts  and  their
codependent  supporters  cannot improve their  chances  of
being in control by the intensification of their levels of
dedication and efforts at being "in-control".

     We   can  participate  in   healthy   mutual/balanced
relationships  as they evolve;  but we cannot control what
will be  the destination of that journey.   We  can  enjoy
being  together in the Way of Shalom,  but we cannot enjoy
being certain  about  our  destinations or  our  level  of
control over the details of our journeys.

     Beware of trying to Fully-Know-or-Control Too-Much.

        Too-Much is not enjoyed in the Way of Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in 
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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