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   %INVITED FALL TRAP OBLIGE RESPOND APPROVE LOVERS 060115
 %DISAPPROVE TOLERATE COMMAND DEMAND PRIVACY ABUSES 060115
 %CORRECT CONFORMITY DICHOTOMOUS POLARIZE VIOLATION 060115

     Often we are invited to fall into the trap of feeling
obliged  to  respond  to each situation with  approval  or
disapproval  and/or to take some action to "correct"   the
situation.    We  may  feel  obliged to  respond  in  some
dichotomous   either/or  WAY;    as if that WAY were   our
DUTY.  Empathy, sympathy, understanding, insight,  system-
analysis  and   other  responses  which  do  not   involve
approval, disapproval or any "corrective"  action ---  are
viewed  as  irrelevant  and/or  inappropriate.     It   is
every   proper  person's  role  to  be  dominant  in  some
unilateral way!    No one is to have the luxury of being a
sympathetic/empathetic observer! 

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in 
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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