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  %CONTESTS OVER INFLUENCE BETWEEN TRUE LOVERS WAYS 060113
%SHALOM PEACEMAKERS TECHNOLOGIES WEAPONS GUNS BOMBS 060113
%VICTORY WINNING DEFEATING ATTACK DOMINATION ENMITY 060113
%EVIL ENEMIES THREATS FEARS ANXIETY MENTAL DISEASES 060113
%SYSTEMS ANALYSIS ENCOUNTER MEET COURT INVITE HELPS 060113
 %ESSENTIAL FOUNDATIONS PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY 060113

     There are Contests-Over-Influence between True-Lovers
and Domineering-People.

     There   are  Differences-in-the-Strategies  of  True-
Lovers and Domineering-People as they encounter each other
and Try-to-be-Influential in their Contrasting-Ways.

     The  Differences-in-Strategies  are  related  to  the
Relative-Advantages Perceived-to-be-Present in:

     Making-Affirmations,    Negating-Affirmations,
     Taking-Initiatives,     Blocking-Initiatives,
     Being-Constructive,     Being-Destructive,
     Being-Honest,           Being-Pretentious,
     Being-Authentic,        Being-Contentious,
     Being-Intimate,         Being-Invulnerable,
     Being-Hospitable,       Being-Domineering,
     Being-Civil,            Being-Violent,
     Being-Cooperative,      Being-Coercive,
     Being-Healers,          Being-Attackers,

                        etc.

     in response to each of the above strategies.

     Of course what is Viewed-as-Advantageous depends upon
What-Each-Participant Brings-to-their-Encounters.

     What is Viewed-as-Advantageous depends upon how  each
participant  views the past,  present and possible  future
Personal-Relationships and their own Personal-Roles within
the contexts of their Personal-Relationships.

     People who cannot envision the wide range of possible
combinations and permutations among the above elements ---
are  not  likely  to be ready,  willing or  able  to  make
informed, prudent,  and wise choices about how to approach
the possibilities which are open to them.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in 
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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