This is http://www.essayz.com/b0601071.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TOLERATING DIFFERENT PEOPLE INHERITED CULTURES DNA 060107 %RELIGION EMPATHY SYMPATHY INTEGRITIES INTEGRATIONS 060107 %DOMINATION SUPERIOR INFERIOR EVIL ENEMIES FALLEN 060107 %SAVED DAMMED REJECTED ALIENATED EXCOMMUNICATED SEX 060107 %TRUE LOVERS INTIMATE SANCTUARY RULE LAW REGULATED 060107 %SCRIPT DRAMA ROLE ASSIGN UNILATERAL COLLUSION GODS 060107 People differ as regards their beliefs about the ultimate nature of and origin of rules, regulations, laws, etc. Those differences may be suggested directly or indirectly by the following statements which are clearly not internally consistent with each other: 1. Participants in any relationship should be free to abide by rules mutually agreed upon without coercion; within evolving covenants. 2. People should obey eternal rules made by God in the beginning of time and given unilaterally to men, to govern men and women. 3. People must obey the rules which have evolved over centuries within their traditional dominant male religious leaders and meetings. 4. Proper rules and laws exist as realities which are independent of human choices and desires. 5. Integrative rules and laws cannot exist independently of those to whom they apply; i.e., without those to whom they apply having power to influence the rules and laws' evolution in different times and places. 6. Taboos, rules, regulations and laws which play central roles in the generation of alienation, excommunications, inhumane-rejections, etc. --- are defective and/or are being enforced in defective ways. 7. Rules, laws, regulations, etc. which cannot be enforced without violating generally respected human rights and/or generating alienation, excommunications, inhumane-rejections --- are defective. 8. Rules, laws, regulations, etc. which concentrate power and wealth into the hands of a few people of any kind --- and deprive many other "different" people of basic needs and powers --- are defective. 9. It is not helpful to function in terms of some people of some kind being treated as "superior-people" and/or some people of some kind being treated as "inferior-people". 10. It is not helpful to function in terms of some people of some kind being treated as "good-people" and/or some people of some kind being treated as "evil-people". 11. It is not helpful to function in terms of some people of some kind being treated as "saved-people" and/or some people of some kind being treated as "not-saved- people". 12. It is not helpful to rule over people without showing emphatic and sympathetic consideration for those differences which are inherent in their unique characteristics and/or over which they have no control; e.g., inherited: DNA, parents, nationality, race, culture, religion, economic-status, class, caste, etc. 13. Beware of rules, laws, regulations, etc. which are contained in writings which are interpreted and enforced by an elite and perhaps small ruling class of domineering people. 14. Beware of taboos, rules, laws, regulations, etc. which are embedded in collusive games of mutual self deception, Domination-Systems, Addictive- Codependent-Relationships, Military-Industrial-Complexes, and related webs of confused webs of Vices-and-Virtues with Dominant Administrators. Not all laws/rules are helpful. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================