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  %MEANINGFUL PARTICIPANTS RELATIONSHIPS EVIL ALONE 051213
%ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT EXCOMMUNICATIONS DEVIL SIN 051213
%COERCIVE STANDARDIZATION EXPECTATIONS DEMANDS FORM 051213
%IDEALS VALUES PRINCIPLES CREATED IDOLS WORSHIP GOD 051213
%MYTH REDEMPTIVE VIOLENCE RIGHTEOUSNESS COOPERATION 051213
 %COMMUNAL PERSON INTEGRATION INTEGRITIES AUTHENTIC 051213

     Participants-in-Relationships   are  meaningful   in
significant ways Within-Their-Relationships ---  Not-Alone
As-Isolated-Individuals.

     How  significant  a participant is, depends  upon how
Significantly-the-Participant is involved within all kinds
of relationships:

     Personal/Communal,
      Objective/Subjective/Reflexive,
       Cooperative/Contentious,
        Gentle/Violent,
         Affirmative/Negative, etc.

     We cannot  Truly-Participate  with  other  people  in
Cooperative-Relationships ---  without being honest  about
how  they are themselves already participants  With-Others
Within-Yet-Other-Relationships.        Envy-and-Dishonesty
about Others'-Yet-Other-Existing-Relationships are  not a
Firm-Foundation-for-Creative-Cooperation.

     We  cannot Truly-Control  Other-People-as-Individuals
or Truly-Control Other-People's-Relationships ---  without
engaging in Actions-Which-Are-Alienative because of:

     Violence,
      Domination,
       Coercion,
        Arrogance,
         Hubris,
          Unilateral-Actions,
           Self-Righteousness,
            Abuses,
             Exclusivity,
              Excommunications,
               Terrorism,
                Dishonesty,
                 Pretense,
                  Greed,
                   Covetousness,
                    Concentrated-Wealth,
                     Concentrated-Powers,
                      Concentrated-Self-Confidence, etc.

     We  cannot  Be-Truly-Responsible-For Other-People-as-
Individuals   or   Truly-Responsible-For   Other-People's-
Relationships ---  without engaging in  Actions-Which-Are-
Alienative because of:

     Violence,
      Domination,
       Coercion,
        Arrogance,
         Hubris,
          Unilateral-Actions,
           Self-Righteousness,
            Abuses,
             Exclusivity,
              Excommunications,
               Terrorism,
                Dishonesty,
                 Pretense,
                  Greed,
                   Covetousness,
                    Concentrated-Wealth,
                     Concentrated-Powers,
                      Concentrated-Self-Confidence, etc.

     We    cannot    Helpfully-Define-a-Relationship    in
Contractual/Formal terms; as such terms convey very little
information about how participants:

     1.  View each other.
     2.  Feel about each other.
     3.  Desire to be with each other.
     4.  Interact with each other.
     5.  Share intimacies with each other.
     6.  Work together.
     7.  Cooperate with each other.
     8.  Resolve conflicts with each other.

     To indicate the nature of a personal relationship  we
need to share information about how the many ways in which
participants have related to each other.  Such indications
are  inhibited by  all forms of alienation which  generate
evil-relationships.

     We need to understand and mitigate the endless cycles
of:

     1.  Alienation,
     2.  Misunderstanding,
     3.  Ignorance,
     4.  Prejudice,
     7.  Biases,
     8.  Arrogance,
     9.  Self-Righteousness,
    10.  Unilateral-Actions,
    11.  Coercion,
    12.  Domination,
    13.  Violence,
     1.  Alienation,
     2.  Misunderstanding,
     3.  Ignorance,
     4.  Prejudice,
     7.  Biases,
     8.  Arrogance,
     9.  Self-Righteousness,
    10.  Unilateral-Actions,
    11.  Coercion,
    12.  Domination,
    13.  Violence,

     There are many places in the cycle to interrupt it.

                          Shalom is The Way.

                       Be-Together in the ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)


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