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  %SEDUCE SHALOM WAY LOVE ESSENTIALLY REFLEXIVE GOD 051212
%REDUCTION INDUCTION LEADERSHIP CORRUPT CENTRAL SEX 051212
  %ABUSE ADDICTION CODEPENDENT INDEPENDENCE SELFISH 051212
%HUBRIS INVULNERABLE VULNERABILITY ARROGANCE GAINED 051212
 %GATHER SUCCESS RESPECT HONOR REVERENCE HOLY GREED 051212
%SELF CENTERED UNIVERSE COSMOS GANG CAST AWAY LOVER 051212

     Seduction is an essentially Reflexive-Process; rather
than an essentially Objective-Process.   In the absence of
reflexivity relationships,  there is no seduction and can
be no seduction.

     Seduction often entails both  Reflexive-and-Objective
Aspects.   In the absence of objectivity ---  there can be
and often is seduction.

     Seduction is the process of a person or persons being
Led-Into-a-Relationship which is Not-Truly-Integrative and
does  Not-Demonstrate-True-Integrities, because in various
ways the relationship:

 1.  Is unbalanced as regards power and/or wealth.
 2.  Serves desires of participants in unbalanced ways.
 3.  Entails dishonesty and/or collusion(s).
 4.  Is pretentious.
 5.  Is narcissistic on behalf of some participant(s).
 6.  Is unbalances as regards knowledge and/or insight.
 7.  Lacks integrative communal support/understanding.
 8.  Cannot be sustained with real integrity/resources.
 9.  Is an attempt to unilaterally fulfill a fantasy.
10.  Is not based upon any integrative understanding.
11.  Engenders unbalanced benefits, risks and costs.
12.  Cannot  endure in any truly balanced-sustainable way.
13.  Occasions disintegrations; rather than integrations.
14.  Lacks true unity and/or coherence.
15.  Does not make real sense to those aware of IT.
16.  Lacks the key elements of I-Thou Relationships.
17.  Embodies  key elements of Evil-Relationships.
18.  Runs counter to key insights of Systems-Analysis.
19.  Often leads to contentious, coercive, violent acts.
20.  Is often founded upon an imbalance of power/wealth.
21.  Leans toward Selfishness-and-Greed, not Generosity.
22.  Leans toward Domination-and-Control, not Liberation.
23.  Leans toward Pretense-and-Deception, not Hospitality.
24.  Leans inward in Accumulative-Ways, not Integratively.
25.  Rarely Survives-Truly in Public-Communal-Settings.
26.  Rarely Survives Truly-Systemic-Analyses In-Public.
27.  Rarely Entails Letting-Go of Domination/Controls.
28.  Rarely Entails Letting-Go of Disintegrative-Fears.
29.  Rarely Entails Letting-Go of Paranoid-Anxieties.
30.  Rarely can be justified in Authentic-Honest-Ways.
31.  May entail seduction into forms of complicity.
32.  Confuses people's sense of responsibility/honor.
33.  Confuses people's distinctions between Vices/Virtues.
34.  Confuses people's understandings of Evil/Integrities.
35.  Confuses Integrative-Myths with Dis-Integrative-Ones.
36.  Confuses people's understandings of Reverence/Honor.
37.  Is one of Unilateral and/or Mutual-Domination.
38.  Dominated by a Domination-System-Community.
39.  Is complicit "In-the-Service-of" a Dominant-Empire.
40.  Is indifferent to dishonesty, coercion and violence.

                    Shalom is the Way of LOVE.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)


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