This is http://www.essayz.com/b0512024.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PRIORITY SETTING COSTS BENEFITS RISKS DANGERS GODS 051202 %IDOLS IDOLATRY PERSONAL GAIN SUCCESS LOSS LOSE WIN 051202 %COMPLEMENTARY GOODS EVILS DEVIL ENEMY ATTACK ALIEN 051202 %FRIEND NEIGHBOR WIFE HUSBAND CHILDREN FAMILY TRIBE 051202 %NATION ARMY NAVY WAR TRUST FEAR ESTRANGEMENT STATE 051202 %MUTUALLY ASSURED NUCLEAR DESTRUCTION VIOLENCE GODS 051202 We need always-to-keep-in-mind that there-are-always alternative-benefits-and-costs; and be humble: 1. If we spend our time one way; we cannot spend that time another way. 2. If we spend our money one way; we cannot spend that money another way. 3. If we focus our attention one way; we cannot at the same time focus our attention in another way. 4. If we follow one budget for a year, we cannot follow an alternative budget during the same year. To evaluate whether any proposed course-of-action will be "good" without asking if it will be better or worse than any other course of action --- is to evade the real questions of life. All "goods" are relative to alternative "goods" --- along with the associated costs and benefits for-all-the-people-who-will-be-affected. Who can weigh ALL of the costs and benefits for all of the alternatives --- and judge which will over-ALL be "best". By what standards are we or anybody else to weigh all of the alternatives and compare each alternative's NET- COST and NET-BENEFIT to ALL-people-who-matter? Shall we ignore the: poor, homeless, hungry, imprisoned, sick, alienated, estranged, excommunicated, dis-possessed, ill, possessed, thirsty, abused, marginalized, etc? By what standards and guide-lines are we to set a course of setting-priorities which are: wise, prudent, gracious, just, kind, integrative, healthy, compassionate, etc? Who can know? What difference does it make as to who knows? (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================