This is http://www.essayz.com/b0511261.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TRUE LOVERS ABSOLUTE CERTAIN TRUTH KNOW INTIMACY 051126 %INVULNERABLE VULNERABLE GIVE RECEIVE FREE PRIVACY 051126 %DEFEND POOR WEAK SICK HOMELESS DISTRIBUTE JUSTICE 051126 %MINIMIZE RISK CLEAR EVIDENT EMPATHY SYMPATHY NEEDS 051126 %BASIC LUXURIES POWER WEALTH CONCENTRATION CORRUPTS 051126 %ENTROPY GARBAGE DEVIL EVIL RELATIONSHIPS VIOLENCE 051126 True-Lovers Share-With Each-Other The-Pleasures of Giving-and-Receiving Free-Unconditional-Gifts of the Freedom-to-be-Vulnerable with Each-Other within diverse Intimate-Healthy-Personal-Relationships. True-Lovers do the above by minimizing the Risks- Inherent in many Intimate-Healthy-Personal-Relationships. True-Lovers do the above with Clearly-Evident Empathy-and-Sympathy for Each-Other's Needs-and-Concerns. --------------- Because of the above activities of True-Lovers they are free of the costly traditional Felt-Needs to: 1. Protect-Themselves from Each-Other. 2. Suspect Each-Other. 3. Protect-Their-Friends from Unknown-Others. 4. Hold-on-to defensive: attitudes, assumptions, weapons, technologies, judgments, coalitions and concentrations of resources, wealth and coercive powers. 5. Prepare for preventive and/or unilateral attacks against perceived evil people and/or enemies. 6. Prepare fortresses, shields and other means to achieve invulnerability. 7. Concentrate unlimited amounts of wealth and power in the above efforts. --------------- The sweet fruits of True-Lovers' efforts include their being freed to: 1. Trust and cooperate with Each-Other. 2. Be imaginative and creative. 3. Be gracious initiators and integrators. 4. Be authentic, open and honest. 5. Learn from mistakes. 6. Transcend tragedies. 7. Adapt to environmental changes. 8. Resolve conflicts among values, ideals, principles and the incarnations of them. 9. Rely upon people who are in the best positions to provide truly needed goods and services at minimal costs and risks. 10. Be interdependent in the many healthy, secure and integrative ways of Shalom. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================