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  %PRUDENTIAL REASON LOGIC SYSTEMS ANALYSIS CONTEXT 051124 
 %WISE DISTRIBUTIVE JUSTICE GRACE GENEROSI INTIMATE 051124
%ALIEN HEALER CARE GIVER HOSPITALITY KINDNESS LOVER 051124
%TRUE TRUTH ABSOLUTE CERTAINTY ARROGANCE HUBRIS SIN 051124
%NATURAL CONSEQUENCE CAUSE EFFECT BIAS PREJUDICE ID 051124
%HONOR KILL FUNDAMENTAL RELIGIOUS NEIGHBORS FORGIVE 051124

     There  are both Prudential-Reasons and Non-Prudential
Reasons for avoiding intimacy in particular circumstances.

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                About Numbering in what follows:

     Below Prudential-Reasons are  given Even-Numbers, and
the   Non-Prudential-Reasons  are  given  Odd-Numbers  ---
because it is ODD how often the Non-Prudential-Reasons are
honored ---   even in the face of  the  Alienative-Bitter-
Fruits to which they lead.

     1.  Fear  of Honor-Killings within communities  which
are Dominated by biased Fundamentalist-Religious-Leaders.

     2.  Fear   of  Transmitting-Deadly-Diseases   through
untimely Sexual-Intimacies.

     3.  Fear    of    Jealous-Domineering-Men    Leading-
Alienative-Activities  of Rejection,  Excommunication  and
Banishment.

     4.  Fear of  creating Unhealthy Addictive-Codependent
Relationships ---  that are misguided by  Collusive-Games-
of-Mutual-Self-Deception.

     5.  Fear of Violent-Disintegrative-Domineering-People
who  believe that Evil-Can-be-Destroyed through  Faith-in-
The-Myth-of-Redemptive-Violence and Works-Led-By-Faith-in-
The-Myth-of-Redemptive-Violence.

     6.  Fear  of Pretentious-Relationships which Conform-
to-Violent-Expectations of Non-Authentic-Conformity.

     7.  Fear of Personal-and-Communal Disintegrations  in
the  Absence-of-Authentic-Virtues --- when Disintegrative-
Vices Dominate-Evil-Relationships ---  that  are respected
as: successful, honorable,  good, and signs of gods' many-
favors to Clever-and-Diligent-Workers.

     8.  Fear  of   being  Led-by-Blind-Fear  --- that  is
nurtured by people who are:  Greedy,  Jealous,  Dishonest,
Hubristic,   Arrogant,   Pretentious,   Unkind,   Violent,
Excommunicators,         Judgmentalists,        Punishers,
Unilateralists, etc.

     9.  Fear  of:  Humility,   Honesty,   Reconciliation,
Creativity,  Revelations, Visions, Clarity,  Transparency,
Authenticity, Intimacy, Cooperation, Vulnerability, etc.

    10.  Fear of:  Disintegrations, Incoherence,  Falling-
Apart,  Indifference,  Decay, Bias, Prejudice,  Ignorance,
Stagnation,   Insensitivity,  Lethargy,  and Distributive-
Injustice.
                     Shalom is The Way Out.
                  Be-Together on The Way Out.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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