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  %ABSENCE COMMUNAL INTEGRITY OPEN HONEST AUTHENTIC 051121
%OPEN HONEST HIDDEN ASPECT SECRET DIFFERENT CONFORM 051121
  %COOPERATE BRING TOGETHER EXCLUSION EXCOMMUNICATE 051121
%UNDERSTAND PREDICT VIOLENCE COERCION DOMINATE EVIL 051121
%TRAGIC ADMIT TRUTH TRUE SELF OTHERS REVEAL VISIONS 051121
 %ENJOY BEING TOGETHER SANCTUARY SAFE VULNERABILITY 051121

     In the ABSENCE of Communal-Integrity ---
     Many members of a community cannot be open/honest
     With other members of their own community.

     In the ABSENCE of Personal-Integrity ---
     Some aspect of a person cannot be openly/honestly
     with other aspects of Their-Own-Being Who-They-Are.

     Both Communal-Integrity and Personal Integrity ---
     Entail Internal Openness-Honesty among the DIFFERENT
     Members/Aspects of the Community-and/or-Person.

     Integration  Entails  Cooperatively-Bringing-Together
     as DIFFERENT Members-and-Aspects of ALL-PRESENT
     Members-and-Aspects of each Community-and-Person.

     Exclusions of Members-and/or-Aspects always entail:
     Excommunications, Alienations, Estrangement and
     Disintegrations of Persons and Communities.

     Violence, Coercion, Domination, & Unilateral-Controls
     Each-time Predictably-and-Reliably lead tragically to
     Both Personal-&-Communal Disintegrations-Loneliness.

     What people cannot-admit-to-each-other ---
     Those people cannot-admit-to-themselves.

     What people cannot-admit-to-themselves ---
     Those people cannot-admit-to-each-other.

     People play Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception
     Within their communities with each other --- and
     Within their own Fragmented-Personalities.

     Both Personal-and-Communal Integrations entail
     Cooperatively-Bringing-Together the fragments of
     Persons-and-Communities --- which have disintegrated.

     Disintegration is the Process-Of-Learning that it is
     Not-Safe to admit to Self-or-Others what are the
     Essential-Truths about Safety-With-Others in Love.

     In the Absence of Real-Sanctuaries For-All
     The Most-Vulnerable People-Present-in-a-Community ---
     There will be Perpetual-Disintegration For-All.

     Within the Presence of Real-Sanctuaries For-All ---
     The Most-Vulnerable People-Present-in-a-Community ---
     Find Perpetual-Integrations For-All To-Enjoy.

                     Shalom is the Way of Love.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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