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  %DOMINEERING SYSTEMS MANAGEMENT CONTROL RELATIONS 051025
%INFLUENCE PROXIMITY CLOSE TOGETHER NEAR INTIMACIES 051025
%FRIENDS INFLUENCE SELF OTHER COLLUSIONS GAMES EVIL 051025
%SEPARATION ISOLATION ESTRANGEMENT EXCOMMUNICATIONS 051025
%MULTI DIMENSIONAL SPACE INTELLECT EMOTION PHYSICAL 051025
%SEXUAL RELIGIOUS SPIRIT ADDICTS DEPEND INDEPENDENT 051025

     Domineering people are preoccupied with managing each
other's   Opportunities-to-be-Influential  within  various
Realms-of-Control.

     Influence often  has to do with Proximity; how Close-
Together    "Agents-of-Influence"    are    To-Each-Other. 
Domineering   people   are   thus   concerned   with   how 
Close-Together in Multi-Dimensional-Spaces others' are  --
-    how  intimate  they  are   With-Each-Other;     e.g.,   
spacially,  temporally,    intellectually,    emotionally,   
physically,  religiously,      spiritually,      sexually,     
politically, economically,    etc.     Issues-of-Influence  
are   often reduced to Issues-of-Dominance-and-CONTROL. 

     The    multi-dimensional-spaces    of   concern    to
Domineering-People do include, but are not limited to:

     1.  Three-spacial-and-one-temporal coordinates.
     2.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Virtues.
     3.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Vices.
     4.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Values.
     5.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Ideals.
     6.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Principles.
     7.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Goals.
     8.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Desires.
     9.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Pleasures.
    10.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Powers.
    11.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Controls.
    12.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Leaders.
    13.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Followers
    14.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Expectations
    15.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Demands.
    16.  Views-of and attitudes-toward common Commands.

     Integrities  have to do with reflexive-relationships;
NOT with isolated: entities, elements, fragments, parts.

     Integrities  have to do  with  intimate-interactions;
NOT with being:  apart,  separate,  isolated,   alienated,
superior,  estranged, unilateral,  distant,  invulnerable,
untouchable, arrogant, self-righteous, lofty, etc.

     Integrities   do  NOT  have  to  do  with   isolated:
conFORMity,  IDEALs,   IDEALism,  IDEAL-FORMs,   FORMulas,
FORMalities; SCRIPTs,   pre-SCRIPT-ions,  pro-SCRIPT-ions,
SCRIPTures,     con-SCRIPT-ions;   PROPR-ities,    PROPER-
thoughts,  PROPER-actions,  PROPER-relationships,  PROPER-
beliefs,    PROPER-doctrines,    PROPER-rituals,   PROPER-
institutions, PROPER-members, etc.

     Apart-from-relationships; there are no integrities.

     In-isolation; there are no integrities.

     Whatever-undermines relationships is dis-integrative.

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     Alienative-Actions are dis-integrative.

     Alienative-Thoughts are dis-integrative.

     Alienative-Beliefs are dis-integrative.

     Alienative-Doctrines are dis-integrative.

     Alienative-Rituals are dis-integrative.

     Alienative-Paradigms are dis-integrative.

     Alienative-Attitudes are dis-integrative.

     Alienative-Defenses are dis-integrative.

     Alienative-Superiorities are dis-integrative.

     Alienative-Achievements are dis-integrative.

                    Shalom is The-way.

                  Be-Together in Shalom.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)


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