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%BEHAVIOR PATTERN CONTRASTS ALIENATIVE DISINTEGRATE 051015
%HEAL RESOLVE CONFLICT VISIONS ENJOY SECURITY LOVER 051015
  %INVULNERABLE VULNERABLE OPEN HONEST INTIMACY ACT 051015
 %COOPERATE COLLABORATE DISTRIBUTIVE JUSTICE WEALTH 051015

     The  following statements describe some of the  major
differences  between  the behaviors-of-people  who  create
alienative/disintegrative  conflicts and  people  who heal
alienative/disintegrative  conflicts.

     The  differences revolve around our different-visions
of our being able to enjoy security in-association-with:


INVULNERABILITY              VULNERABILITY

ALIENATION                   OPEN AND HONEST INTIMACY

UNILATERAL ACTIONS           COOPERATION AND COLLABORATION

CONCENTRATIONS OF POWER      DISTRIBUTIVE-JUSTICE

DISTRIBUTIVE-INJUSTICE       DISTRIBUTIONS-OF-POWER

CONCENTRATIONS OF WEALTH     DISTRIBUTIONS-OF-WEALTH

BUILDING UP DEFENSES         INTEGRATIONS OF COMMUNITIES

PERSONAL-DOMINANCE           PERSONAL-INTEGRITIES

PERSONAL-CONTROLS             PERSONAL-INTEGRATIONS

PERSONAL-CONFORMITY          PERSONAL-CREATIVITY

PERSONAL-FORMALITIES         PERSONAL-INTIMACIES

BUILDING HIGH-COST-HOUSING   BUILDING LOW-COST-HOUSING

MILITARISTIC ACTIVITIES     COOPERATIVE-DISARMAMENT

DEFEATING ENEMIES            COOPERATING WITH ENEMIES

DESTROYING EVIL-PEOPLE       RECONCILING EVIL RELATIONS

DOMINATING EVIL-PEOPLE       TRANSCENDING GOOD-VS-EVIL

FORMING POWER-COALITIONS     TRANSCENDING COALITIONS

GETTING MORE POWER/GOODS     SHARING MORE POWER/GOODS

WINNING CONTENTIONS BATTLES  MITIGATING CONTENTIOUSNESS

BEING SUPERIOR TO OTHERS     HELPING MEET OTHERS' NEEDS

BEING ARROGANT               BEING HUMBLE

BEING SELF-RIGHTEOUS         BEING MEEK

BEING INDEPENDENT            BEING INTERDEPENDENT

BEING WINNERS                BEING GRACIOUS RECONCILERS

BEING GOOD CONFORMISTS       BEING AUTHENTICALLY PRESENT

OBEYING GOOD RULES/LAWS      BEING TRUE-TO-SELF AND OTHERS

BEING UNITED IN PERSPECTIVE  DIALOGUE ABOUT PERSPECTIVES

BEING LOYAL TO BEST FRIENDS  BEING HONEST WITH ALL PEOPLE

KEEPING ESSENTIAL SECRETS    TRANSCENDING KEEPING SECRETS

BEING DOMINANT               SHOWING GRACIOUS HOSPITALITY

BEING IN CHARGE              BEING CREATIVE INTEGRATORS

BEING IN CONTROL             FACILITATING RELAXATION

BEING PRETENTIOUS            BEING AUTHENTIC

BEING EXTREMISTS             BEING BALANCED

BEING TERRORISTS             BEING CIVIL

ACHIEVING CHOSEN GOALS       COOPERATIVELY SETTING GOALS

TRANSCENDING LIMITS          HONESTY ABOUT TRUE LIMITS

DOING THE IMPOSSIBLE         DISCERNING WHAT IS IMPOSSIBLE

CONSUMING RESOURCES          SEEING WHAT IS SUSTAINABLE

What is  important  is  the  overall  pattern of contrasts
between  items  on the left and items on the right.    The
contrasts  between  items  horizontally across  from  each
other  are  not the only important  contrasts.    Diagonal
contrasts are also important.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)


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