This is http://www.essayz.com/b0510042.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TRUE LOVERS INTEGRITIES FULLEST INTIMACIES HONEST 051004 %COOPERATE MANAGE HAZARDS RISKS THREATS DETRACTORS 051004 %FEARS ANXIETY ABSENCE SHAME GUILT FEAR VULNERABLE 051004 %INVULNERABLE SAFE FORT DEFENSE COALITION ARMY GOOD 051004 %WAR TERROR BOMB GUN ATTACK NEGATIVE CONTEND FIGHTS 051004 %ALIEN ENEMY DEVIL IDENTIFY ISOLATE DESTROY RIGHTS 051004 Have True-Lovers been able to cooperate in managing their: hazards, risks, threats, detractors and fears --- and so been able to be Fully-Intimate --- in the absence of: shame, guilt and fears of being vulnerable? If they have done so, whom have they told? Who knows about their Fullest-Intimacies? How can we know about their Fullest-Intimacies? Can the above be known within a Wider-Community which is Fully-Dominated-By: Domineering people? Negativists? Pessimists? Greedy-People? Selfish-People? Self-Centered-People? Conflict-Centered-People? Contentious-People? Fear-Full-People? Anxious-People? Paranoids? Violent-People? Addicts? Codependent-Supporters? Perfectionists? Purists? Purifiers? Exclusive-People? People-Playing-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception? ------------------------- Can the above be known by the above kinds of people? Can the above be demonstrated safely to such people? Can intimacies be facilitated by such people? Do such people want to facilitate such intimacies? Why would such people want to facilitate intimacies? Why might such people fear to facilitate intimacies? Why might such people fear such intimacies? Why might such people inhibit such intimacies? Why might such people prohibit such intimacies? Why might such people make such intimacies taboo? ------------------------- How can personal/communal integrities be facilitated? How can personal/communal health be facilitated? How can personal/communal wealth be facilitated? How can personal/communal wholeness be facilitated? How can personal/communal cooperation be facilitated? How can personal/communal creativity be facilitated? How can personal/communal imagination be facilitated? How can personal/communal hopes be fulfilled? ------------------------- Can we separate personal from communal aspects? Can we separate communal from personal aspects? Can we with integrity separate the two aspects? Can we with integrity be exclusivists? Can we with integrity be arrogant? Can we with integrity be unilateralists? Can we with integrity be self-righteous? Can we with integrity be violent? Can we with integrity be coercive? Can we with integrity be dishonest? Can we with integrity be pretentious? How many kinds of integrities can be demonstrated? Who can know for sure? How can they know for sure? Shalom is the Way. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================