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  %RULES LAWS PRESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTIONS EFFECTIVE 050910
%DOMINANT WAYS SHALOM FACILITATE PROMOTE HEALTH JOY 050910
%DUE CONSIDERATION RIGHTS AUTHORITY PEOPLE OWN HOPE 050910
%EXPERIENCE PERCEPTION DESIRE HOPE VISION FANTASIES 050910
%PERSPECTIVE FRAME QUESTION HISTORY HERITAGE LOVERS 050910
 %INTEGRATE FEARS ANXIETY FRIEND NEIGHBOR POOR TALK 050910

     Rules,  laws, prescriptions, proscriptions, etc.  ---
are  not  effective  Dominant-Ways  of  facilitating   and
promoting Healthy-Personal-Relationships --- because  they
do   not  give  Due-Consideration  to  the   Authority-Of-
People's-Own:

     1.  Experiences,
     2.  Perceptions,
     3.  Desires,
     4.  Hopes,
     5.  Visions,
     6.  Fantasies,
     7.  Perspectives,
     8.  Histories,
     9.  Heritages,
    10.  Authenticity,
    11.  Integrities,
    12.  Fears,
    13.  Anxieties,
    14.  Friendships,
    15.  Expressions,
    16.  Communications,
    17.  Dialogue,
    18.  Resentments,
    19.  Anger,
    20.  Frustrations.

     The above kinds of Authorities cannot be: Managed-or-
Controlled  by  "outsiders".

     Attempts to "manage"  or "control" the above kinds of
Authorities   engender:   Alienation,    Excommunications,
Banishments,    Blocked-Communications, Misunderstandings,
etc.

     When  the above kinds of Authorities  are  Not-Given-
Due-Consideration, the present victims are often bound to:

     1.  Fall into Defensive-Postures.
     2.  Be suspicious and dis-trustful.
     3.  Become alienated from Domineering-Others.
     4.  Be tempted to Take-up-Offensive-Postures.
     5.  Look for Technologies-for-Invulnerability.
     6.  View Security-as-a-fruit-of-Technologies.
     7.  Seek to Maximize Persona-Gain at Others-Loss.
     8.  Ignore the costs of Others-Losses.
     9.  Ignore the costs of Communal-Disintegrations.
    10.  Ignore the costs of Personal-Disintegrations.

     Paradigms  which  do  not give  Due-Consideration  to
occasions  which engender:  Alienation,  Excommunications,
Banishments,   Blocked-Communications,  Misunderstandings,
etc.   ---   are paradigms which fail  to  Facilitate  and
Promote:  Healthy-Relationships,  Personal-Integrities and
Communal-Integrities.   We may Prudently-and-Wisely Judge-
Paradigms  by  the  Fruits-which-they-Produce  Within-Our-
Relationships.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)


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