This is http://www.essayz.com/b0507271.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CONTRAST TRUE LOVERS DOMINEERING AUTHENTIC PEOPLE 050727 %NOTE OBSERVE DISCERN ENVISION DESCRIBE REAL GRACE 050727 %AUTHENTIC LETTING GO WEALTH CONCENTRATED POWER SIN 050727 %PRETENSE MAGIC TRICKS DECEPTION DISHONEST RELATION 050727 %EVIL ALIENATION ESTRANGE EXCOMMUNICATE VIOLENCE ID 050727 %LOSS ABSENT MISSING FORGOTTEN INDIFFERENT IGNORED 050727 %CLUTCH INVULNERABLE POSSESSION RICH YOUNG RULERS 050727 True lovers are authentic in reducing imbalances in personal powers, wealth, security and vulnerability; because such-imbalances-empower Alienative-Domination which lead to disintegrations. Domineering-People are compulsive in trying to increase imbalances in: powers, wealth, security and vulnerability; because thereby they hope to increase their abilities to Dominate-Each-Other Without-Regard to the Costs-To-Each-Other in: 1. Alienation, 2. Estrangement, 3. Loss-of-Wealth, 4. Loss-of-Power, 5. Loss-of-Security, 6. Loss-of-Sanctuaries, 7. Loss-of-Trust, 8. Loss-of-Reverence, 9. Loss-of-Integrity, 10. Loss-of-Coherence, 11. Loss-of-Unity, 12. Loss-of-Health, 13. Loss-of-Cooperation, 14. Loss-of-Respect, 15. Loss-of-Mutuality, 16. Loss-of-Balance, 17. Loss-of-Creativity, 18. Loss-of-Understanding, 19. Loss-of-Resources, 20. Loss-of-Robustness. True-Lovers work to facilitate and promote integrations of diverse kinds in graceful, civil, and hospitable ways. Domineering-People work to Control-and-Dominate: 1. Possessions, 2. Powers, 3. Wealth, 4. Weapons, 5. Armies, 6. Military-Industrial-Complexes, 7. Teachnologies, 8. Sciences, 9. Scholarship, 10. Communications, 11. Manipulative-Tools, 12. Perceptions, 13. Understanding, 14. Desires, 15. Hopes, 16. Expectations, 17. Intentions, 18 Plans, 19. Cooperation, 20. Intimacies, 21. Sexuality, 22. Reverence, 23. Idolatries, 24. Addictions, 25. Codependencies, 26. Religions, 27. Economics, 28. Natural-Resources, 29. Oil, Coal, Gas, 30. Ideal & Values. There are multiple levels of pretense and deception inthe Bags-of-Tricks of Dishonest-Domineering-People: 1. Pretending that the laws Whic-They-Dominate Must- Be-Obeyed To-Achieve God's-Favors --- Later-in-Heaven. 2. Pretending-that-They are Demonstrating-Integrity. 3. Pretending-that-They are Trustworthy & Reverent. 4. Pretending-that-They are CERTAIN-about-the-TRUTH. 5. Pretending-that-They posess MAGICAL-POWERS. 6. Pretending-They are Willing-To-Be-VULNERABLE. 7. Pretending-They are True-Lovers-of-Justice. 8. Pretending-They are willing to Share-Powers. 9. Pretending-They are willing to Share-Wealth. 10. Pretending-They are willing to Be-Honest. True-Lovers Note-and-Describe their experiences that: 1. Compelled-Obedience yields bitter fruits. 2. Compelled-Conformity yields bitter fruits. 3. Domineering people do not revere the poor. 4. Domineering people demonstrate insecurity. 5. Domineering peoples' trickery Backfires-on-Them. 6. Pretentious INVULNERABILITY is not True-Security. 7. Distributive-Justice does Not-Concentrate-Wealth. 8. Distributive-Justice does Not-Concentrate-Powers. 9. Domineering-People are Not-Sharing-Their-Wealth. 10. Domineering-People are Not-Honestly-Vulnerable. Seduction, in its various forms, often etails the above kinds of pretentious behaviors; regardless of the form: 1. Sexual, 2. Capitalistic, 3. Economic, 4. Political, 5. Religious, 6. Spritual, 7. Prental, 8. Educational, 9. Scholarly, 10. Scientific, 11. Engineering, 12. Teachnocrtica, 13. Military-Industrial-Complexual, 14. Theolotical, 15. Evangelical, 16. Fundamentalistic, 17. Etc. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================