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%WITHIN SANCTUARY WELL HEALTHY INTEGRATED COMMUNITY 050722
%SAFELY VULNERABLE INTIMACY CLUSTER WISE FULFILL IT 050722
   %DESIRE HOPE ASPIRATION PLAN ENGINEER TECHNOLOGY 050722
 %DIFFERENT CONFORMITY SCRIPTS PLAY COLLUSIVE GAMES 050722

     Within     each    well-integrated-community     each
participant   and  cluster-of-participants  is  safe   and
comfortable  in being vulnerable to each other among them;
individually and cluster-wise; and are fulfilled therin.

     Within   each   tragically-dominated-community   each
prticipatnt and cluster-of-participants is unsafe and  un-
comofrtable in being vulnerable to each other among  them;
individually and cluster-wise --- and seeks therefor to be
dominant over each other among them; and fails therein.

     Many  people  within each of  the  above  contrasting
communities  are unable to recognize just what it is  that
contrasts  the two kinds of communities.   Much  less  are
they  able  to unilaterally change the  differences  which
they do recognize as contrasting; and maybe complementary.

     Those  who are not playing collusive games of  mutual
self deception have a far better chance of discerning  and
helpfully changing the differences which they recognize to
be  present;   especially  if  they  are  willing  to   be
cooperative,  honest,  and gracious in such efforts.    An
essential  key  to  the process is  showing  gracious  and
honest respect for each other's true needs and desires.   

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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