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  %PERSPECTIVE REGARDING RELATIONSHIPS PARTICIPANTS 050707
  %TRUE LOVERS DOMINEERING LOYAL SUPPORTERS SYSTEMS 050707
 %COLLUSIVE ANALYSIS GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION IT 050707
  %SATISFIED PLEASURE BEING TOGETHER WORK COOPERATE 050707
  %WILLING DESIRE LOVE HOPE TRUST VULNERABLE SAFETY 050707
  %WELL HEALTH SHALOM INTEGRATED PERSONAL COMMUNITY 050707

     True-Lovers perceive good-relationships in terms of:

     1.  How  satisfied  the participants are  with  their
relationhip   in  being/working/cooperating  together  and
enjoying each other as good/intimate friends.

     2.  How balanced  the  participants  are in:   power,
contributions, benefits,  grace, patience and sharing with
each other.

     3.  How  willing/desirous participants are  in being:
friendly,  vulnerable,  intimate, honest,  etc.  with each
other.

     4.  How  well  integrated  internally and  with  each
other the participants in the relationship are.

     5.  How  well  integrated  the  participants  are  as
members of their communities.

     Tomineering-People  perceive  good-relationships   in
terms of:
     1.  How  much and in what ways they can benefit  from
the relationship;  in prestige, influence, power,  wealth,
etc.

     2.  How fully they can influence,  manage, control or
dominate the relationship.

     3.  The extent to which the participants are oriented
to rules,  laws,  regulations,  formalities,  ideal-forms,
conformity,  obedience,  authorities, etc.  ---  which the
Domineering-Can-Use  as  means by  which  to:   Influence,
Manage,    Dominate   and/or  Control  the Relationship in
Profitable-Ways.

     4.  The  Extent  to which the participants and  their
relationship are not a threat to The-Domination-System; by
not exposing the multitude of ways in which  It[s-Servants
Lack-Integrity as The-Domination-System Lack-Integrity.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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