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     In  the  realms of Cause-and-Effect which pertain  to
Human-Intimacies-and-Affections    the   boundaries    are
sometimes Not-Clear; particularly as regards:

     1.  Intentions-and-Motivations,
     2.  Likely Causes-and-Effects,
     3.  Intended-Messages and Received-Messages,
     4.  Purely-Symbolic versus Purely-Objective Actions,
     5.  Standard-Communal versus Very-Personal,
     6.  Purely-Ritualistic versus Purely-Objective Acts,
     7.  Clearly-Sexual versus Non-Sexual-Intimacies,
     8.  What-is-Possible versus What-is-Impossible,
     9.  What-is-Easy versus What-is-Difficult,
    10.  What-is-Probable versus What-is-Improbable,
    11.  What-is-Secular-Culltural vs What-is-Religious,
    12.  What-is-Spiritual versus What-is-Religious,
    13.  What-is-Addictive versus What-is-Conventional,
    14.  What-is-Healthy versus What-is-Sickening, etc.

     Such   lacks   of  clarity   cannot   be   eliminated
UNILATERALLY  by  any  person  or  coalition  of  persons,
because they pertain to Humane-and/or-Inhumane RELATIONS.

     The    differences   between   Humane-and/or-Inhumane
involve diffferences between:

     1.  Cooperative and Domineering,
     2.  Coercive and gentle,
     3.  Violent and kind,
     4.  INpatient and patient,
     5.  Dialogues and lectures,
     6.  Demands and invitations,
     7.  Rape and courtship,
     8.  Assalt and seduction,
     9.  Attack and Colaboration,
    10.  Personable and MANdated,
    11.  Informal and formal,
    12.  Being-Willing and Being-Reluctant,
    13.  Being-Resistant and Being-Eager,
    14.  Being-Responsive and Being-Reactors,
    15.  Being-Thankful and Being-Resentful,
    16.  Being-Integrative and Being-DIS-Integrative,
    17.  Being-Healthy and Being-DIS-Eased,
    18.  Being-Alive and Being-Deadly,
    19.  Being-Authentic and Being-Conformed,
    20.  Being-Initiators and Being-Resistors.

     It  is clear that both the  Realities-and-Perceptions
that are pointed to above depend in major ways upon:

     1.  Who is in charge,
     2.  Who-is-Poor,
     3.  Who-is-Wealthy,
     4.  Who-is-Impotent,
     5.  Who-is-Powerful,
     6.  Who-is-Articulate,
     7.  Who-is-Deaf,
     8.  Who-is-Dumb,
     9.  Who-is-INarticulate,
    10.  Who-is-Scribe,
    11.  Who-is-Author,
    12.  Who-is-UNlettered,
    13.  Who-is-Reader,
    14.  Who-is-Lecturer,
    15.  Who-is-Professor,
    16.  Who-is-Dictator,
    17.  Who-is-Dominant,
    18.  Who-is-Servile,
    19.  Who-is-Meek,
    20.  Who-is-Servant,
    21.  Who-is-On-Top,
    22.  Who-is-Underneath,
    23.  Who-is-Winner,
    24.  Who-is-Loser,
    25.  Who-is-Lost.

     Too often people assume that the only realities which
counts are Objective-Realities;  when,  in fact,  the main
realities  which  count  are In-the-Eyes-of-the-Beholders;
Reflexive-Rather-than-Objective.      It   is   Reflexive-
Realities   which   lead  most   powerfully   to effective
decisions  and  actions.    Personal-Perceptions  Mediate-
Between  Objective-Realities  and   Decisions-and-Actions.
Objective-Communications  do  not  by themselves  lead  to
Powerful   Decisions-and-Actions.     The   Perceptions-of
Recipients   of  Objective-Communications  are  Reflexive-
Realities  which  Mediate-Between Objective-Realities  and
Powerful Decisions-and-Actions.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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