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 %FIND ENJOY COME FULFILLMENT MEANINGFUL FRIEND SEX 050604
%PREREQUISITE PERSONAL COMMUNAL HONESTY OPEN SAFETY 050604
%GRACES TRANSCEND TRAGIC REALITY UNDERMINE SUPPRESS 050604
%REPRESS DEPRESS DESTROY DENIGRATE FOUNDATION LOVER 050604
%REMEMBER ACKNOWLEDGE LEARN RECONCILE ALIENS ACTION 050604
%SPEAK WRITE PICTURE PAINT TELL BALANCE WHOLE TRUTH 050604

     We  find  and  enjoy  fulfillment within  meaningful-
friendships and intimate-relationships to the extent that:

     1.  We  find  ways  to  share  with  each  other  the
foundations/prerequisites for personal/communal:  honesty,
openness, safe-vulnerability, security, sanctuaries, etc.

     2.  We  find ways to share with each other  our  most
gracious  ways  to transcend all of the  tragic  realities
which: undermine,  suppress, repress,  depress, destroy or
otherwise   denigrate  the  above  foundations  and   pre-
requisites for personal/communal: honesty, openness, safe-
vulnerability, security, sanctuaries, etc.

     3.  We remember,  acknowledge and learn from both our
most-reconciling  and our most-alienative  experiences  in
our  most-significant personal-and-communal relationships;
and freely share what we have learned --- as graciously as
we can find ways to do so.

     4.  We  maintain  balance among a  wide  spectrum  of
mutually  complementary:  virtues,  concerns,  priorities,
interests, friends, communities, etc.

     5.  We   maintain  balance  between   concern   about
systemic-communal-problems     and     immediate-personal-
problems.
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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