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  %GETTING YES TOGETHER PAST NO DOMINANT SUBMISSIVE 050515
%COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION GOOD EVIL ID 050515
 %COOPERATE COLLABORATE FACILITATE PROMOTE DIALOGUE 050515

     "Getting  To Yes",  "Getting Together"  and  "Getting
Past No" are:

     1.  Not  about  one party being dominant  and/or  in
control in the end.

     2.  Not  about  one  party  being  submissive  and/or
enslaved in the end.

     3.  Not about disintegrative compromises.

     4.  Not  about  playing   "Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-
Self-Deception.

     5.  Not about "Good-People" overcoming "Evil-People"

                         But-Rather-About

     1.  Cooperation and Collaboration.

     2.  Forming  new sanctuaries with which to be safely-
vulnerable   in   open  and  honest  dialogue   which   is
informative.

     3.  Getting  past  biases,   prejudices,   ignorance,
misunderstandings, alienation, etc.

     4.  Working  to facilitate and promote both  personal
integrities and communal integtrities.

     5.  Healing Dysfunctional-Evil-Relationships.

                         (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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