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%REAL TRUE SIGNIFICANT MEANING OWNER CONTROL OBJECT 050411
  %AUTHENTIC DOMINATION COLLECTION PERSON COMMUNITY 050411
%CONTEXT ENVIRONMENT RELATIONSHIP PARTICIPATION SEX 050411
   %GOD TRUE LOVERS NEEDS DESIRES HOPES ASPIRATIONS 050411
%AUTHORITATIVE EXPERIENCE VICTIM VIOLENCE COERCIONS 050411
  %THIRSTY POOR HUNGRY SICK HOMELESS EXCOMMUNICATED 050411

     The is NO Real-or-True Significance-or-Meaning in the
ownership-of,   the  control-of or the  domination-of  any
Object or Collection-of-Objects.

     The is NO Real-or-True Significance-or-Meaning in the
ownership-of,   the  control-of or the  domination-of  any
Person or Community.

     Real-and-True  Significance-and-Meaning  are  enjoyed
only  within  Cooperative-Relationships  that  entail  the
Willing-Participation  of Diverse-Self-and-Others;  taking
into consideration the needs, desires, hopes, aspirations,
visions,  dreams, fantasies, talents, abilities, injuries,
diseases, fears, anxieties, etc. of All-Participants.

     Each effort  to  Dominate,   Control and/or Transcend
Minimized-Others  ---    undermines most:   Real-and-True:
significance, meanings, integrations, integrities, health,
shalom,  hopes,  aspirations, visions, dreams,  fantasies,
etc.

     Unilateral-Efforts to Prevent-Change, Control-Change,
Formalize,   or other wise  Dominate-Any-Relationship  ---
will most  likely  augment:    Alienation,   Estrangement,
Separation,   Resentment,   Misunderstanding,   Ignorance,
Prejudice, Bias, Distributive-Injustice, Anxieties, Fears,
Resentment, Anger, and most Vices.

     Cooperative-Efforts to  Facilitate:  Honest-Dialogue,
Active-Listening,      Sanctuary-Building,      Sanctuary-
Maintenance, Intimate-Friendships, Intimate-Relationships,
and  All-That-Is-Supportive of them ---  will most  likely
augment:  Reconciliation, Mutual-Understanding, Coherence,
Appreciation, Mutual-Respect, Personal-Knowledge, Justice,
Integrations,  Integrities, Distributive-Justice,  Health,
Mutual-Assurance,  Forgiveness,  Love and most other True-
Virtues.

     Healthy-Relationships Entail-Mutual-Vulnerability,
     Healthy-Intimacies Entail-Mutual-Vulnerability,
     Healthy-Sexuality Entails-Mutual-Vulnerability,
     Regardless of the Role-of-Sexuality therein.

     Attempts to Eliminate-Vulnerability are destructive.
     Attempts to Become-In-Vulnerable are destructive.
     Attempts to Prevent-Vulnerability are destructive.
     Attempts to Be-Invulnerable-to-Tragedies will fail.

     Technocratic-Attempts to transcend the above; fail.
     Legalistic-Attempts to transcend the above; fail.
     Perfectionists'-Tries to transcend the above; fail.
     Unilateral-Attempts to transcend the above; fail.
     Arrogant-Attempts to transcend the above; fail.

     Attempts to Prevent-All-Tragedies are destructive.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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