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    %VIOLENCE COERCION DISHONESTY SECRECY ARROGANCE 050328
 %DOMINATION MYTH REDEMPTIVE VIOLENCE WAR TERRORISM 050328
  %WORTHY RESPECT HONOR SUPPORT REVERENCE COHERENCE 050328
%TRUST COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF OTHER DECEPTIONS 050328
%ADMIRE AUTHENTIC CONGRUITY UNITY COHERENCE LOYALTY 050328
%NATURAL CONSEQUENCES CONTRIVED PUNISHMENT HELL SIN 050328

     Domineering-People  believe-that  and   behave-as-if:
violence,   coercion,   dishonesty,  secrecy,   arrogance,
domination,     and   related    manipulative-means    and
technologies   can-be  used-successfully  to-achieve-goals
which are worthy of: respect,  honor, support, admiration,
etc.   There is no evidence to support that belief.   They
are playing collusive games of mutual self deception.

     That which is worthy of respect, honor, support,  and
admiration regularly demonstrates:  integrity,  coherence,
congruity, and authentic-unity.

     Violence,  coercion,  dishonesty, secrecy, arrogance,
domination,   and related  manipulative-means/technologies
are inherently ---  by their natures DISINTEGRATIVE --- in
ways which undermine:  coherence, congruity and authentic-
unity.

     Victims of violence,  coercion, dishonesty,  secrecy,
arrogance,  domination, hubris, etc. cannot with-integrity
appreciate  the DISINTEGRATIVE-CONSEQUENCES of:  violence,
coercion,  dishonesty,  secrecy,  arrogance,   domination,
hubris, etc.  Any such appreciation is a sign of some form
of disease/dis-ease,   and contributes to further  disease
and dis-ease.

     Personal-and-Communal    Integrations-and-Integrities
are NOT the fruits of: violence,   coercion,   dishonesty,
secrecy,  arrogance, domination, hubris, etc. ---  because
their fruits are:  alienation,  estrangement,  resentment,
anger,  revenge, resistance, rebellion, distrust and other
blockages to: cooperation,  collaboration,  communication,
dialogue,   learning,   civility, love,   complementation,
construction, mutuality, healing, reconciliation, etc.

     People cannot-be-forced into meaningful relationships
against  their wills.   Forced-relationships are  unstable
and not authentic or meaningful.   Trying to force  people
into  prescribed-relationships will make the evolution  of
meaningful-relationships highly unlikely.  Ideal-Forms and
prescriptions  are  not  conducive  to  the  formation  of
meaningful    and   stable   personal-relationships   that
demonstrate integrity, coherence, authenticity and unity.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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