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%TRUE PEACEMAKER COURTSHIP CONFLICT RESOLUTION LOVE 050327
  %AUTHENTIC DEMONSTRATION BEING READY WILLING ABLE 050327
  %FACILITATE PROMOTE OPEN HONEST BALANCED DIALOGUE 050327
%COOPERATION COLLABORATION MUTUAL RELIABLE GRACIOUS 050327
%TRUST RESPECT REVERENCE EXPECT HOPE CIVILITY GIVER 050327
%COMPLEMENT AFFIRM POSITIVE CONSTRUCT BUILD HEALERS 050327
      
           Central   to   any  True-Courtship   are   Authentic-
      Demonstrations    of   Being-Ready-Willing-and-Able    To-
      Facilitate:
      
       1.  Open-and-Honest Balanced-Dialogue.
       2.  Taking-Balanced-Risks For-Each-Other.
       3.  Cooperation-and-Collaboration.
       4.  Mutual-Reliability-and-Trust.
       5.  Gracious-Expectations-and-Hope.
       6.  Honesty-and-Authenticity.
       7.  Civility-and-Hospitality.
       8.  Peacemaking-With-Shalom.
       9.  Complementary-True-Affirmations.
      10.  Gentleness-Kindness-and-Sympathy.
      
           Essential  to  each  of  the  above  is  Being-Ready-
      Willing-and-Able   to  Cooperate-and-Collaborate in  Truly
      Taking-Balanced-Risks:  For-Each-Other -----  Rather-Than:
      Unilaterally-For-Self.
      
           None-of-the-Above are likely to Come-To-Be so long as
      those involved are Preoccupied-With  Unilaterally-Getting:
      
       1.  Invulnerability-For-Self --- at Other's-Expense.
       2.  More-than-Others-Have; e.g., Wealth/Power/Love.
       3.  Together-Coalitions-Against-Others.
       4.  For-Self a Narcissistic-Sense-of-Superiority.
       5.  Knowledge of WHO-is-Evil, and WHO-is-Good.
       6.  Labels to Stick-on-Each-Other.
       7.  More-Justice Than-Others-Can-Get.
       8.  More-Fruits Than-Others-Can-Get.
       9.  Ahead At-The-Expense-of-Losers.
      10.  Clarity At-The-Expense-of-Others'-Confusion.
      
           None-of-the-Above-Benefits  are likely to  Be-Enjoyed
      so long as those involved are Negligent-About or  Seeking-
      to-Undermine-Any:
      
       1.  Personal/Communal --- Integrities/Integrations.
       2.  Communal-Sanctuaries Where-All-Are-Welcomed.
       3.  Authentic-Forms-of-Honest-Intimacies.
       4.  Effective-Means-of-Honest-Communications.
       5.  Accurate-and-Gracious Reliable-Descriptions.
       6.  Reliable-Ways of Predicting-Natural-Consequences.
       7.  Integrative-Objective/Reflexive-Relationships.
       8.  Truly-Integrative forms of Creative-Initiatives.
       9.  Truly-Integrative forms of Sexual-Relationships.
      10.  Truly-Healthy form of Shalom/Peacemaking in LOVE.
      
           None-of-the-Above-Benefits  are likely to  Be-Enjoyed
      so  long as People's-Focusing upon what is  Absent/Lacking
      --- ITSELF-IS-LACKING in:
      
       1.  Understanding of how to Mitigate-The-Lack.
       2.  Intentionality to Truly-Mitigate-The-Lack.
       3.  Civility, Grace, Sympathy, Humility or Integrity.
       4.  An understanding of the plots of Greek-Tragedies.
       5.  An understanding of the plots of New-Tragedies.
       6.  An understanding of the Myth-of-Redemptive-Violence.
       7.  A commitment to resolve all conflicts non-Violently.
       8.  A commitment to Sustaining Distributive-Justice.
       9.  A commitment to Risk to Facilitating-Integrations.
      10.  A commitment to Risk-Helping-To-Sustain-Integrities.
      
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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