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 %REFLEXIVE VIOLENCE SELF OTHER COMMUNITY INTEGRITY 050325
%REPRESS SUPPRESS KNOW WHO SUPERIOR SAVED BEST GOOD 050325
%EVIL ENEMY LABEL REJECTED EXCOMMUNICATE PURIFY SIN 050325
%HEALTHY SEXUAL RELATION ALIENATE ESTRANGE EXCLUDED 050325
%MUTUALLY ASSURED NUCLEAR DESTRUCTION BOMBS MISSILE 050325
%SEGREGATED CLASS CASTE CLUB CHURCH RELIGION SCRIPT 050325
      
     Because     Personal-and-Communal-Integrities     are
Closely-Interdependent we cannot Violate-Another-Person's-
Integrity,  without at  the same  time  Violating-Our-Own-
Integrity.

     Violating-One-Person's-Integrity does-violence to the
Integrity-of-the-Communities  within which  the  Violated-
Person lives --- regardless-of-the-status of the Violated-
Person's "status" within those communities.
      
     The  Domineering-Person who does-violence-to-another-
person  --- lives  within at-least-one community-in-common
with the Violated-Person;  i.e.,  within the Community-of-
the-Crew-of-Spaceship-Earth; Village-Earth <== Click Link!
     
     Thus    doing-violence-to-anyone    undermines    the
integrity   of  the  violent-person  by  undermining   the
Integrity-of-Space-Ship-Earth's Total-Community.
      
     To be  willing  to do violence-to-any-one,  one  must
violate  at  least some of the  Essential-Foundations-for-
Personal-and-Communal-Integrity.  That is hard to do while
trying to maintain Self-Esteem in any Integrative-Way.
     
     To  mitigate the difficulties to  self ---- of  doing
violence to one-other-person, one is likely to do violence
to the following Essential-Foundations-Of-Integrity --- at
least within oneself;   even if no-one-else  knows  of the
internal violence:
      
 1.  Honesty, Authenticity, Humility, Coherence.
 2.  Kindness, Gentleness, Consideration, Grace.
 3.  Hospitality, Respect, Honor, Tolerance.
 4.  Listening, Dialogue, Responsiveness, Generosity.
 5.  Patience, Balance, Mutuality, Distributive-Justice.

                   (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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