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  %UNILATERAL TRUE CONTROL HUMANE PERSONAL RELATION 050321
%PERSON GROUP GANG MOB CAST DOMINATION SYSTEM DEVIL 050321
%EVIL-RELATIONSHIPS ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT EXCLUDE 050321
 %REFLEXIVE REALITIES OBJECTIVE COMPLAINTS REJECTED 050321
%AUTHENTIC PRIVATE FEELINGS ATTITUDES DESIRES HOPES 050321
%PLEASURES BEINGS TOGETHER INTIMATE SEXUAL ACTIVITY 050321
      
           There  are Many-Reasons why no one person or group of
      people   can  Unilaterally-Truly-Control  Humane-Personal-
      Relationships  between/among  other persons, or  groups of
      persons;    or  control  their  Human-Private:   feelings,
      attitudes,   desires,   pleasures,   hopes,   aspirations,
      intentions,  etc.   It is dishonest and disintegrative for
      any person or group of  persons  to pretend that the above
      and/or what follows do not  point to important facts about
      Human-Personal-Relationships.
      
           Among the Many-Reasons pointed to above are the facts
      that domineering-persons and groups will NOT:
      
           1.  Reliably predict  the response of any person's or
      group's to  efforts  to be unilaterally in control of some
      aspects of their lives.
      
           2.  Truly-understand how  each person  will  perceive
      efforts  to be unilaterally in control of some aspects  of
      their personal lives.
      
           3.  Be Truly-Objective and  Without-Bias  in  efforts
       to  be  unilaterally  in control of some aspects  of  the
      personal lives of others.
      
           4.  Prevent   Unpredictable-Tragic-Consequences  from
      flowing naturally from efforts to try   to be unilaterally
      in  control  of  some  aspects of the  personal  lives  of
      others.
      
           5.  Avoid  the  natural  Alienative-Consequences   of
      effort   to be unilaterally in control some aspects of the
      personal lives of others.
      
           6.  Avoid triggering:  resentment, anger,  rebellion,
      alienation,   estrangement,  misunderstanding,  prejudice,
      ignorance,   confusion,  biases,  and other disintegrative
      reactions --- to attempts to be in control of some aspects
      of the lives of human beings.
      
           7.  Truly understand and Reliably-Predict the  future
      behaviors  of  persons  from  whom  they  have   alienated
      THEMSELVES  ---  even in the absence of future  irritating
      behaviors.
      
           8.  Acknowledge the truths pointed to here --- and so
      further   blind   themselves  to  their   own   lack   of:
      authenticity,   coherence,  integrity,  honor,  reverence,
      hope, health, civility, and reliability.
      
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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