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   %TRULY CONFORMAL PEOPLE TRAPPED IMPRISONED BOXED 050318
%TRADITION CONSTRAINT ATTITUDE ASSUMPTION BELIEF GO 050318
%LETTING PERMITTING CREATIVITY INTIMACY HONESTY SEX 050318
 %SPEAK TRUTH POWER WEALTH CONCENTRATION CAPITALISM 050318
 %APPARENT PERSONAL RELATIONS DYSFUNCTIONAL HEALTHY 050318
  %INTEGRATE WORTHY QUALIFIED HONOR RESPECT SUPPORT 050318
      
            Truly-Conformal-People will  be unable  to  get  far
      enough outside of  their  Traditional-Boxes-of-Constraints
      of:    Attitudes,   Assumptions,   Beliefs,   Convictions,
      Doctrines,  Confessions,  Rituals, etc. ---  to understand
      what realities the following texts Point-Toward:
      
           An apparently Personal-Relationship --- between/among
      two  or  more  persons ---  IS  dysfunctional,  unhealthy,
      disintegrative AND unworthy-of UNQUALIFIED honor, respect,
      support or reverence --- IF:
      
           1.  Any one of the persons involved in,  or  affected
      by,  the  "personal"  Relationships-Entailed  ---  resents
      having to  Pretend-Anything"  to "get"  any of their basic
      human needs met.
      
           2.  Enforced-Pretense/Conformity  is  Personally-and-
      Communally disintegrative.
      
           3.  Enforced-Pretense entails dishonesty on the parts
      of  enforcer(s)   and  on the parts of all victims  of the
      abuse,   regardless of  the  Domains-of-the-Abuse;   e.g.,
      sexual, financial,    religious,   political,  scientific,
      work, military, interview, educational, spiritual, etc.
      
           4.  Distributive-Injustice  entails dishonesty on the
      parts  of  enforcer(s)  and on the part of all victims  of
      abuse,   regardless  of the  Domains-of-the-Abuse;   e.g.,
      sexual,   financial,    religious,  political, scientific,
      work, military, interview, educational, spiritual, etc.
      
           5.  Unilateral-Concentrations  of   Wealth-and-Powers
      within the Controls-of-Dominators and/or Systems-of-Powers
      ---  Demonstrate-the-Corruptions  of All-Wealth-and-Powers
      through Unilateral-Concentrations.
      
           6.  The Absence-Of:  Openness, Authenticity, Honesty,
      Vulnerability,    Generosity,    Hospitality,    Civility,
      Gracious-Risk-Taking,  Patience, Humility, Healing,  Love,
      Faith,  Trust, Hope and/or Love ---  suggests The-Presence
      of Abusive-Conditions Described-Above;  i.e., The-Presence
      of  Evil-Relationships  ---  even though there can  be  no
      Essentially-Evil-Persons   in   our    Integrative-Cosmos.
      "Essentially-Evil-Person"  is an Oxymoronic-Phrase,  as is
      the phrase  "Essentially-Dry-Water".    Both  phrases lack
      integrity and coherence.    Both phrases invite hearers to
      join  in Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.    Both
      phrases   are   Essentially-Abusive  and  undermine   both
      Personal-and-Communal Integrations-and-Integrities.
      
           7.  People are  encouraged  or helped to ---  demand,
      respect,   support  or show reverence to ---  Thoughtless-
      Conformity of Any-Kind;  passionate, depressed,  hopeless,
      codependent,  addictive, greedy, egocentric, narcissistic,
      etc.
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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