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  %ESSENTIALLY NEGATIVE POSITIVE PEOPLE DEFINE SELF 050311
 %WINNERS LOSER AFFIRMATION COOPERATION COLLABORATE 050311
 %DEFEAT ATTACK DENIGRATE DESTROY DISINTEGRATE LOVE 050311
  %TRUE PARTIAL COMPLEMENTARY TRUTHS ABSOLUTE GRACE 050311
 %SHARE HOSPITALITY VULNERABILITY RISK BENEFIT EVIL 050311
  %COMPETE KEEP SCORES JUDGMENTS SUPERIOR BEST GOOD 050311
      
           Essentially-Negative-People    Define-Themselves   in
      Essentially-Negative-Terms;    e.g.,  by what they NEGATE.
      They are preoccupied with making other people be losers.
      
                             In contrast with:
      
           Essentially-Positive-People   who   Define-Themselves
      in Essentially-Positive-Terms;  e.g.,  by what the AFFIRM.
      They are interested in cooperating with others as winners.
      
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           Essentially-Negative-People don't Cooperate with you.
      
                             In contrast with:
      
           Essentially-Positive-People who always cooperate.
      
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           Domineering-People are Essentially-Negative-People.
      
                             In contrast with:
      
           True-Lovers who are Essentially-Positive-People.
      
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           We cannot-defeat Essentially-Negative-People in-Love.
      
           We can-win-over  Essentially-Negative-People in-Love.
      
           We can-win-with  Essentially-Negative-People in-Love.
      
           We cannot-defeat Essentially-Negative-People in-Hate.
      
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           Beware-of-being  Essentially-Negative-People in-Hate.
      
           Imitating any Essentially-Negative-People IS-Hateful.
      
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           We cannot "win" anything if full of Hate/Envy/Pride.
      
           We cannot "win" by keeping others from winning.
      
           We cannot "win" my making others become losers.
      
           True-Living is not about "winning" and/or "losing".
      
           True-Loving is about AFFIRMING forms of COOPERATION.
      
           True-Living is about being essentially AFFIRMATIVE.
      
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                                    Shalom
      
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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