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%CONTRASTING IDEAL FORMS FORMULAS CONFORMITY TRUTHS 050311
%COOPERATING TOGETHER INTEGRATION INTEGRITIES LOVER 050311
%CONTENTIOUS WINNING LOSING LOST DESTINATION ENDING 050311
%EXPECTATION DEMANDS COERCION VIOLENCE NUCLEAR WARS 050311
%DESTRUCTION EXCOMMUNICATION ALIENATION BANISHMENTS 050311
%GRACIOUS BUILDING COMMUNAL SANCTUARY VULNERABILITY 050311
      
           Integrations  evolve  and  persist  within  favorable
      environments  in  the  presence of groups  of  people  who
      resonate with each other about clearly defined and clearly
      affirmed priorities which are shared in common.  Shalom!
      
                             In contrast with:
      
           Disintegrations evolve and persist within contentious
      environments  in  the  presence of groups  of  people  who
      content with each other about vaguely defined and  vaguely
      contended priorities which are the focus of much conflict,
      coercion and violence about who will be dominant.   Hell!
      
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           True-Lovers  cooperate  with  each  other  in  taking
      Prudent-Risks to build-favorable-environments Within-Which
      to    resonate    about    Graciously-Defined-And-Affirmed
      Integrative-Priorities.
      
                             In contrast with:
      
           Domineering-Individualists  contend  with each  other
      Within-Risky-Contexts to Denigrate Each-Other's:  Demands,
      Commands, Laws, Expectations, Prescriptions, Proscriptions
      and Scripts-and/or-Scriptures.
      
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           True-Lovers seek to discern the contexts within which
      they can move together in clarifying how best to transcend
      their differences  by --- refining their  affirmations  of
      what they regard as  the  essential  foundations for their
      personal and communal integrations and integrities.
      
                             In contrast with:
      
            Domineering-Individualists  discerning the  contexts
      within  which  they can unilaterally attack each other  at
      their  most vulnerable points of:   weakness,   confusion,
      ignorance, bias, prejudice, arrogance, self-righteousness,
      isolation,  alienation, excommunication, banishment, evil-
      relationships, conflicts, contentiousness, terror and war.
      
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           True-Lovers  cooperate  in  Working-Together  on  the
      Building-and-Maintaining of True-Sanctuaries  within which
      Diverse-People  can  be  both  Vulnerable-and-Safe  within
      Intimate-Relationships  to   Clarify-And-Balance   Mutual-
      Priorities   on  Diverse-Paths  to   Personal-and-Communal
      Integrations-and-Integrities.  Shalom!
      
                             In contrast with:
      
            Domineering Individualists demanding that each other
      Conform with Them about the ULTIMATE:  IDEAL, FORM, RIGHT,
      RITE,  RITUAL, TRADITION, VALUE, PERSON, DESTINATION, SIN,
      TRUTH,  WALL, BOUNDARY, FORMULA, FORMALITY, LAW, JUDGMENT,
      REWARD, PUNISHMENT, AND MEANS TO CONFORMITY. HELL!
      
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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