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 %TABOO TOPICS ISSUES POSSIBILITIES HEALING REALITY 050309
  %IMPOSSIBLE DIALOGUE INVULNERABLE INTIMACY SEXUAL 050309
 %HONEST AUTHENTIC COHERENCE TRUE PEACE MAKING GODS 050309
  %CONFLICT RESOLUTION PERSONAL INTEGRITY COOPERATE 050309
%COLLABORATE GRACE FORGIVE CONFESS HEAL HURTING SIN 050309
%CONCEPT LANGUAGE VOCABULARY SYSTEMS ANALYSIS REFLE 050309
      
           Why is it that Domineering People rarely say anything
      AFFIRMATIVELY, OVERTLY, AND CLEARLY about:
      
           1.  Intimacy?
           2.  Sexuality?
           3.  Vulnerability?
           4.  Honesty?
           5.  Authenticity?
           6.  Coherence?
           7.  True-Peace-Making?
           8.  Authentic-Conflict-Resolution?
           9.  Authentic-Personal-Integrity?
          10.  Authentic-Communal-Integrity?
          11.  Cooperation?
          12.  Collaboration?
          13.  Grace?
          14.  Forgiveness?
          15.  Reconciliation?
          16.  Healing-Relationships?
          17.  Personal-Creativity?
          18.  Communal-Creativity?
          19.  Personal-Transformations?
          20.  Communal-Transformations?
      
           Perhaps  it is because Domineering-People are lacking
      in   significant:   experiences,    conceptual-frameworks,
      ideals, values,  principles, concepts, hopes, aspirations,
      goals,   and intimately related realities ---  in terms of
      which to address the above twenty numbered items.
      
           Perhaps  it is because The-Domination-System  forbids
      open  and honest dialogue about the above twenty  numbered
      items; they are taboo.
      
           Perhaps  is it because to talk about the above twenty
      numbered  items  in any way which will elicit  significant
      respect  ---   one  must be willing to  be  VULNERABLE  by
      LETTING-GO-OF-BEING: able,  prepared, willing and ready to
      defend-oneself-unilaterally in ways which entail  coercion
      and/or violence.   Such VULNERABILITY is unthinkable!   If
      you  cannot think  about  doing some-thing;  one cannot do
      the-thing well,  and maybe one cannot do the thing at all!
      What chance is there then for cooperation?
      
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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