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%REJECTED SHALOM HEALTH SECURITY LOVE EROS SEXUAL 050227 %EROTIC FRIENDS NEIGHBORS TRUE LOVERS BOUNDARIES 050227 %FUZZY EVIL GOOD RECONCILED RELATIONSHIPS HUMBLED 050227 %HUMILITY ARROGANT DOMINATION SYSTEMS ANALYSIS IT 050227 %THOU BUBER REFLEXIVE DESCRIPTION PERSONAL TABOO 050227 %OBJECTIVE MEASUREMENT CERTAIN HEISENBERG UNCERTS 050227 "Good" Domineering-People are firm in assuming and believing that their taboos are "GOOD" and that the taboos of True-Lovers are EVIL --- because True-Lovers' taboos entail: 1. Ambiguity, uncertainty, doubt and fuzzy-bounds. 2. Vulnerability, cooperation, honesty and risks. 3. Honest: sharing, generosity and authenticity. 4. Shared-risk-management and sharing-scarce-things. 5. Letting-Go-of-Invulnerability & "Certain-Goods". 6. Letting-Go-of-Measuring kinds of "GOODS". 7. Letting-Go-of "The-Certainty" of "OBJECTVITY". 8. Letting-Go-of "The-Certainty" of "ABSOLUTE-TRUTH" 9. Making-Exceptions to "ABSOLUTE-COMMANDMENTS". 10. Not-Defending the "GOOD-DOMINATION-SYSTEM". Not all taboos are "GOOD-TABOOS". Look-and-see! Many taboos fail because they lead-tragically to: alienation, estrangement, excommunications, banishments, exclusions, denigrations, self-righteousness, arrogance, hubris, attacks, unilateralism, judgmentalism, false-piety, misleading-rituals, prejudice, bias, self-serving-accumulations, self-serving-coalitions, self-serving-cooperation, military-industrial-complexes, violent-attacks, mutually-assured-destruction, the-use-of-nuclear-weapons, false-invulnerability-forms, false-ideal-forms-of-love, romance-with-violence, erotic-forms-of-violence, unilateral-good-rescues, blocks-to-coherent-work, falling-into-hell, narcissistic-self-dependence certainty-about-good-self, certainty-about-evil-others, absent-humility, absent-grace, absent-love, GOOD-GOD! fallen! done! one! 1 We shall know which are good-taboos and which taboos- fail --- by-their-fruits. We shall know which are good-rules, good-laws, good- judgments --- and which rules-fail, laws-fail, judgments-fail --- by-their-fruits. We shall know which are healthy-relationships and which are evil-relationships --- by-their-fruits. We shall know that no-individuals-as-such are-evil. We shall know that no-individuals-as-such are-good. We shall know that we-as-individuals are not-evil. We shall know that we-as-individuals are not-good. We shall know that they-as-individuals are not-evil. We shall know that they-as-individuals are not-good. We shall know that we cannot be sure about good/evil. We shall know that we cannot be evil/good. We shall know humility when we see it clearly. We shall know arrogance when we see it clearly. We shall know hubris when we see it clearly. We shall know unilateral exclusivity when we see it. We will NOT show reverence to that which is not God. We will LET-GO-OF our reverence for our idols. We will reconcile with our created-enemies-of-love. We will reconcile with our alienated-neighbors. We will reconcile with our tragic mistakes/blunders. We will know that we have not been as good as - - - - Maybe some day kids will be taught all-about-taboos? Shalom (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================