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  %PHYSICAL WALLS BOUNDARIES ESSENTIAL ASPECTS LOVE 050207
%GOOD EVIL SAFE RIGHT GUIDE PATH WAY NEIGHBOR HOUSE 050207
%SANCTUARY CASTLE FORTRESS EXCLUDE INCLUDE KINDNESS 050207
%UNILATERAL DEFENSE VULNERABLE INVULNERABLE COMMUNE 050207
  %CLUB CLIQUE CHURCH COMFORT HEALER HOSPITAL CIVIL 050207
  %SECURITY DISTRIBUTIVE JUSTICE TERRORIST WAR FALL 050207
      
           Physical-Walls   are  NOT  the essential-aspects of a
      true-communal-sanctuary.
      
           Boundaries   which  exclude-people-in-need  are   NOT
      essential-aspects of any true-communal-sanctuary.
      
           No   kind  of  boundaries   unilaterally-designed-to-
      protect people  (hopefully to keep insiders  invulnerable)
      can  truly-serve as essential-aspects of a  true-communal-
      community.
      
           No   unilateral-method-of-defense  ever   plays    an
      essential-role  in  creating-and-maintaining a  long-term-
      sustainable true-communal-sanctuary.
      
           In  a  long-term-sustainable  true-communal-sanctuary
      the least-within-the-communal-sanctuary feel-NO-need to:
      
           1.  Defend themselves against domineering-people.
           2.  Build Physical-Walls to protect themselves.
           3.  Draw mutually-exclusive walls in self-defense.
           4.  Take any form of unilateral-action to-be-safe.
           5.  Avoid any form of vulnerability to-be-safe.
           6.  Be deceptive, secretive, misleading, defensive...
           7.  Be arrogant, self-righteous, invulnerable...
           8.  Build walls of alienation, confusion, prejudice..
           9.  Defend walls of polarization, bias, certainty...
          10.  Hide behind dichotomies, ABSOLUTE-TRUTH, pride..
          11.  Play collusive-games-of-mutual-self-deception...
          12.  Accumulate wealth and power to become-safe alone.
      
           Because the least-within-the-communal-sanctuary feel-
      no-need  to do any of the above;  the most-wealthy and the
      most-powerful feel-no-need to:
      
           1.  Wage wars against terrorists in Space-Ship-Earth.
           2.  Invade peoples'-privacy to protect themselves.
           3.  Try-to-control people's desires, thoughts, etc.
           4.  Support any Cosmic-Domination-System of God/LOVE.
           5.  Defend ABSOLUT-TRUTH against complementary-truths
           6.  Help God do what He does not have the power to do
           7.  Help God do what She does not will to do.
           8.  Regulate intimate/sexual relationships in LOVE.
           9.  Devise complicated systems of rules/regulations.
          10.  Pass judgments in the absence of full knowledge.
      
           True-Lovers    work    coherently/consistently     to
      facilitate-and-promote:     cooperation,    collaboration,
      dialogue,  honesty,  openness,  authenticity,   listening,
      learning; and  the recognition  of the natures of:   true-
      tragedies,  true-sanctuaries,  true-reconciliation & true-
      conflict-resolution  within  the  overall-pattern-of-true-
      peacemaking.
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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