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 %DENY REALITY ACCEPT EACH OTHER WITHIN TRUE LOVERS 050104
 %ACCEPT ACCEPTANCE RECONCILIATION HEALING HOSPITAL 050104
%SANCTUARY SPACESHIP EARTH CREW ALIENATION ESTRANGE 050104
%DIFFERENT IMPERFECT IMPURITY EXCOMMUNICATION DEVIL 050104
%UNACCEPTABLE CONFORMITY EXPECTATION DEMANDS HONEST 050104
%DOMINATION VIOLENCE NUCLEAR WAR ASSURE DESTRUCTION 050104

     We  and  others are led by our Domination  Systems to
deny  the  realities of those realities which we have  not
controlled, and cannot control.

     We  believe that we MUST CONTROL all  that  seems  to
threaten us;  else we cannot be secure through our selfish
invulnerability.

     We  MUST BE INVULNERABLE;  else we cannot  be  SECURE
THROUGH SELFISH INVULNERABILITY.

     We  MUST  BE CONFORMED to OUR ULTIMATE  REALITIES  in
keeping with OUR ULTIMATE CONCERNS.

     Our  major  challenge is to discern  the  differences
between  what just seems to us to threaten us;   and  what
really threatens us; e.g., OUR MOST FEARFUL RELATIONSHIPS.

     Our  relationships  which are most full-of-our-fears,
are   OUR  MOST  FEARFUL  RELATIONSHIPS.    They  are  the
realities which most threaten us.   We cannot control them
unilaterally.   To transcend such ULTIMATE THREATS we must
stop treating them as ULTIMATELY-REAL;   ESSENTIALLY-REAL;
BEYOND-OUT-CONTROL; cooperate in acknowledging the limited
extent to which they are real; and cooperate in mitigating
the  extent  to  which they are real ---  because  of  our
behaviors which are:

     1.  Alineativel/Entropic,
     2.  Confusing/Chaotic,
     3.  Excommunicative/Isolating,
     4.  Arrogant/Self-righteous,
     5.  Self-righteous/Exclusive,
     6.  Dichotomizing/Fragmentive,
     7.  Exclusive/Rejective,
     8.  Unilateral/Arbitrary,
     9.  Judgemental/Simplistic,
    10.  Prejudicial/Capricious,
    11.  Domineering/Violent,
    12.  Pretentious/Dishonest,
    13.  Denigrating/Irreverent,
    14.  Depressing/Mean,
    15.  Repressive/Suppressive,
    16.  Insensitive/Careless,
    17.  Indifferent/Discriminative,
    18.  Narcissistic/Ego-centric,
    19.  Diseased/Mentally-Ill-at-ease.
    20.  Defensive/Offensive.

    Our acts of DESTRUCTION are NOT-CONSTRUCTIVE.

    If we deny such realities we cannot mitigate them.

    We CANNOT COOPERATE in mitigating what is NOT REAL.

    We CAN COOPERATE in mitigating what WE SAY IS REAL.

    We cannot mitigate EVIL by destroying EVIL-PEOPLE.

    We cannot mitigate EVIL by destroying EVIL-THINGS.

    We cannot mitigate EVIL by destroying EVIL-SPIRITS.

    We cannot mitigate EVIL by labeling ISOLATED-EVILS.


    We CAN MITIATE EVIL through OUR COOPERATIVE-ACTIONS.

    We cannot save ourselves via alienative behaviors.

    We are in Space-Ship-Earth together and cannot leave.

    We better learn how to cooperate with the whole crew.

    We CAN MITIGATE EVIL through COOPERATING with others.

                         Let us begin.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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