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%INTEGRATIVE HEALTHY NORMAL NATURAL COOPERATIVE GOD 041229
%INTEGRITIES STAGES GROWTH MATURATION MATURE LOVERS 041229
 %HONESTY AUTHENTICITY TRUE TRUTH ANGRY RAGE RESENT 041229
%KIND DISTRIBUTIVE JUSTICE CIVILITY HOSPITALITY SEX 041229
%INTIMACY KNOWLEDGE SCIENCE PHILOSOPHY RELIGION BAD 041229
%CONFORMITY PROPRIETY FORMALITY LAWS ORDERS LOYALTY 041229

     Within  each aspect of each individual person's  life
there are states-of-growth.  So also within each aspect of
each personal relationship.  So within each aspect of:

 1.  Each individual person's life.
 2.  Each personal relationship.
 3.  Each family's developments.
 4.  Each neighborhood.
 5.  Each city.
 6.  Each province/county.
 7.  Each state/country.
 8.  Each nation/civilization.
 9.  Each culture/profession.
10.  Each religion/faith-community.
11.  Each communal-sanctuary.
12.  Each intellectual-paradigm.
13.  Each scientific-paradigm.
14.  Each defensive-paradigm.
15.  Each way of resisting-domination.
16.  Each way of personal-integration.
17.  Each way of communal-integration.
18.  Each way of growing in personal-integrities.
19.  Each way of growing in communal-integrities.
20.  Each way of growing in cosmological-integrity.
21.  Each way of growing in mythological-integrity.
22.  Each other way of passing through:
                       Stages-of-Growth.

     In  each of the above processes of passing through  a
natural  process  of  Stages-of-Growth  there  are  normal
patterns of sequence which are healthy,  integrative,  and
naturally enjoyable; enjoyed by being-cooperative.

     In  each  of the above PASSing through "states"   and
"stages"   of  growth ---  UNILATERAL-EFFORTS  to  be  IN-
CONTROL-OF, to SPEED-UP, to SLOW-DOWN, TO-DIVERT, TO-BLOCK
any  of  the  normal  and natural PASSages  ---   violates
integrities and so is violent. VIOLENCE is present in each
form of VIOLATING-INTEGRITIES; e.g., in UNILATERAL-EFFORTS
to:  dominate, control, manage, take-advantage-of,  block,
divert,  destroy,  reform, conform, formalize,  overwhelm,
confuse, mis-lead, seduce, etc.

     To avoid the development of disintegrative:  empires,
dictators, coalitions, gangs, mob-rule, religions, states,
cities,  counties,  neighborhoods, castes,  private-clubs,
professions,  cults,  etc.  ---  we need to understand and
facilitate the normal/natural COOPERATIVE passages through
all  the  different  kinds of States-of-Growth;   such  as
indicated above.  DOMINEERING agents are NOT-COOPERATIVE!

 1.  We cannot force people to be cooperative.

 2.  We cannot force people through good stages of growth.

 3.  We cannot use VIOLENCE redemptively with integrity.

 4.  We cannot be COERCIVE redemptively with integrity.

 5.  We cannot UNILATERALLY facilitate stages of growth.

 6.  We cannot jump people over fearful stages of growth.

 7.  We cannot prematurely enforce any stage of growth.

     In COOPERATIVE-WAYS we can facilitate/encourage:

 1.  Cooperation.

 2.  Normal/natural stages of growth.

 3.  Integrations, redemption, forgiveness and healing.

 4.  Diverse forms of integrities and integrations.

 5.  The transcendence of violent/unilateral actions.

 6.  The transcendence of disintegrative fears.

 7.  Help people understand their Stages-of-Growth.

     Within  each  arena  of  growth  within  persons  and
communities  there are many patterns which entail  Stages-
of-Growth.     We  need to cooperate  in  gaining   better
awareness of and understandings of how best to  facilitate
and encourage integrative-states-of-growth in each case.

     Our lives are Faith-Journeys in which we pass through
many  natural/normal  stages of growth ---

     as regards our foci of:  trust, understanding,  hope,
meaning, respect, and reverence ---

     as regards our diverse: ideals,  values,  principles,
attitudes,   assumptions,  doctrines,   myths,   parables,
cosmologies; families,  friends,  neighbors,  true-lovers,
patterns  of domination,  patterns of violence,   leaders,
heroes, villains,  etc.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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