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  %DOMINEERING PEOPLE RELAX STOP BEING NARCISSISTIC 041102
%MILD ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT EXCOMMUNICATION DEVIL 041102
 %GOOD SELF-RIGHTEOUS ARROGANT PIOUS RELIGIOUS SINS 041102
 %WORST CASE MUTUAL THREATS COLLUSIONS DESTRUCTIONS 041102
 %NUCLEAR WAR INSTANT RETALIATION HAIR TRIGGER GUNS 041102
%AMERICAN MILITARY INDUSTRIAL FEARS COMPLEX BLINDER 041102

     The observations below are inter-connected in
perverse and tragic ways.  The following statements
attempt to point to the "logic" and pattern of attitudes
and "reasoning" which prevail among Domineering-People,
but not necessarily among non-domineering people.

     Domineering-People cannot deal creatively with
threats to their personal and communal integrations and
integrities --- because Domineering-People:

     1.  Are compulsively preoccupied with achieving
absolute-invulnerability for themselves in-isolation ---
no matter what the costs will be to other more vulnerable-
people's integrations and integrities.

     2.  Are-Willing-To-Sacrifice the Communal-
Integrations and Communal-Integrities of the Crew of
Space-Ship-Earth --- in order to appear-to-themselves to
achieve-invulnerability-for-themselves-in-isolation.

     3.  Focus upon their own Worst-Case-Self-Defenses
In-Isolation --- in the absence-of-cooperation with the-
other-members of the Crew-of-Space-Ship-Earth.

     4.  Neglect-to-attend to opportunities to work-
cooperatively in Truly-Resolving-Mild-Conflicts with their
near neighbors on occasions of mild-alienation, mild-
misunderstandings, and mild-excommunications.

     5.  Try to defeat-their-perceived-enemies whom they
have tacitly-or-overtly labeled-as-evil-people from-whom
The-Domineering-People Have-Excommunicated-Themselves.

     6.  Escalate occasions-of-mild-alienation into
Global-Conflicts which include destabalizing THREATS-OF-
TOTAL-MUTUAL-SELF-DESTRUCTION in keeping with their
NARCISSISTIC-COLLUSIVE-GAMES-OF-MUTUAL-SELF-DECEPTION.

     Domineering-People are preoccupied with their own
destructive-fears which are rooted in their own separation
and/or alienation from other members of the Crew-of-Space-
Ship-Earth.

     Domineering-People cannot-see that their own worst
enemies are their own-fears which blind them to what is
truly-most-important in regards to: vulnerability,
insecurity, safety, intimacy, honesty, integrity,
dialogue, listening, cooperation, balance, mutuality,
communal-health, communal-integrations, communal-
integrities, and meaningful-living.  They cannot believe
that their Best-Self-Defense is to RELAX and Stop-Being-
Domineering --- so that they can begin being True-Peace-
Makers who truly-resolve-mild-conflicts day-by-day.

     It is important to see just how it is that
Domineering-People's exclusive-concerns with just their
own: fears, sense-of-insecurity, preoccupations,
attitudes, assumptions, beliefs, convictions, etc. ---
lead naturally to pervasive patterns of distributive-
Injustice-and-Instability.  In the absence of Pervasive-
Distributive-Justice --- it is impossible for there to be
any Long-Term Dependent-and-Interdependent patterns of
Communal-and-Personal Integrations-and-Integrities.  It is
thus essential for each Person-and-Community to work
diligently in Creating-and-Maintaining Sanctuary-
Communities within which all Different-Kinds-of-Peoples
can Be-Safely-Vulnerable; and Honestly-Feel that they can
Honestly-Be-Safely-Vulnerable in spite of the Pervasive-
Presence of The-Domination-System of The-Fallen-Powers-
That-Be.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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