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   %INSECURE DOMINEERING INTERNAL CONFLICT RESOLVED 041017
%RESPECT MACHO MALE INDIVIDUALIST COOPERATE CONTROL 041017
%RESPONSIBLE REVERENT DIALOGUE COOPERATION COMMUNAL 041017
   %UNILATERAL HERO AUTHENTIC CONFORMED IDEAL FORMS 041017
 %CONFORMAL FITTING PROPER OUTSTANDING GOODS DEVILS 041017

     Domineering people  are  often  insecure  because  of
internal  conflicts  which  have  not  been  resolved  for
various  reasons assoociatated with competing,   but  very
similar,  grounds for hope and self-confidence.   Often it
is not clear that there is any competition, difference, or
tension;   so there is not conscious effort to resolve the
TENSIONS between being:

     1.  Respected as being a macho individualist who is a
different,   self-standing,  unique   person;   OR   as  a
cooperative-community  member whom others respect,  honor,
and  support  as a responsible-responsive  member  of  the
community.

     2.  A UNILTERALIST-HERO, or a COOPERATIVE-SERVANT.

     3.  AUTHENTIC, or PROPERLY-CONFORMING.

     4.  Respected  as  a  likable-conversationalist,   or
being a respected self-confident honest leader.

     5.  FITTED-IN or STANDING-OUT.

     4.  Loyal to high values and ideals,  or being firmly
loyal  to  friends  within the gang.

     5.  Loyal to  FAMILY-VALUES,   or  loyal  to  FAMILY-
MEMBERS.

     6.  Loyal to one simple vision,  or truly integrating
complex/complementary truths.

     7.  Loyal to FUNDAMENTALISM,  or loyal to INTEGRATING
COMPLEMENTY-PARTIAL-TRUTHS.

     8.  SUPERIOR, or IN-TOUCH.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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