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 %SECRET SOCIETIES CRITERIA RECOGNIZE ACCEPT REJECT 041003
%INCLUDE EXCLUDE SANCTUARY COMMUNITY EVIL RELATIONS 041003
%SECRET MYSTERIES POWER CONCENTRATION CRITERIA GODS 041003
  %SANCTUARY COMMUNITIES SAFELY VULNERABLE INTIMATE 041003
  %TABOO TRUE LOVERS THROUGH TRANSPARENT COLLUSIONS 041003
%THOUGHTLESS INSENSITIVE PRETENSE SELFISH FEARS SEX 041003

     Domineering   People  often  function  within  formal
and/or informal Secret-Societies with  Secret-Criteria  in
terms  of  which they recognize who is "in"   and  who  is
"out".

     True-Lovers seek  to  function  within Open Societies
without   Secret-Criteria;    i.e.,    within   Sanctuary-
Communities which are open to all.   All are encouraged to
be open and honest  with  each  other  in  friendships and
intimate  relationships where people are safely-vulnerable
with each other.

     It is  taboo for Dominering-People to be  True-Lovers
who  can  see  through  the  secret  walls    of   Secret-
Societies;   for  transparency and authenticity undermines
the operating principles of Domineering-People.

     Thus,  because of their  own  rules of domination ---
Domineering-People  cannot  truly  see with any  level  of
mutual understanding --- the  profound  levels  of  Mutual
Understanding  among  True-Lovers.     It  is  taboo   for
Domineering-People to participate  in honest dialogue with
True-Lovers.  They must not cooperate with their enemies.

     True-Lovers  are seen as the enemies of  Domineering-
People;   because  True-Lovers work to reveal  the  secret
operational principles and the  disintegrative  nature  of
the ways of Domineering-People.    Secrecy is essential to
the  successes  of Domineering-People.    Secrecy  is  the
antithisis  of the ways of True-Lovers.    However,  it is
taboo for Domineering-People to be aware of,  to know,  or
to undestand these truths.

     Domineering-People  are  stuck with  their  principle
that  the  key  to  their "success"  must  be  based  upon
competition among them  about who will most "successfully"
seek to be most dominant.   All but  one of them must lose
and be disintegrated --- according to their rules.    Open
and  honest cooperation among all people is forbidden  ---
so  they all disintegrate and take  others with them  into
their paths of disintegration.

     True-Lovers have the advantage that their lives  are
based   upon  the  reality  that  personal  and   communal
integrities   depend   upon   mutual   understanding   and
cooperation.   They seek to cooperate with  all  people in
seeking  integrative  ways  which build  up all  kinds  of
personal and communal integrities.

     When Domineering-People issue a traditional challenge
for  a  traditional  contest over who will  ultimately  be
DOMINANT;   True-Lovers invite each other to work together
in cooperative efforts to facilitate and promote new forms
of personal and communal integrities.   We may judge their
their contrasting behaviors by their contrasting fruits!

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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